Alright me and some friends got into an argument after church this sunday about sex after marriage. We all agree that it's right to wait until marriage. The argument arised when one person asked what we thought sex after marriage meant. Without going into too much detail me and another guy said as long as you and your spouse are both consenting and agree to it, anything goes. He argued that the only sex that was appropriate was, for lack of being more descriptive, Missionary and that anything else was sin. This got pretty heated and we never came to a conclusion. I'm pretty sure if its between a husband and wife and they both are like its cool, then its fine. The whole only missionary thing just seems wrong. So who is right?
OK questions about sex after marriage
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How can someone say anything is right or wrong, Paul says (now do not quote me on this I know its in the bible but I could be wrong on who says it still learning) in the bible for wives to not hold out on there husbands and for husbands not to hold out on wives. Basically it meant do not with hold things from one another what someone believes as right or wrong is up to them God puts no speciation on what should or should not go on in the bed room as long as its between husband and wife and both consenting can anyone condemn the other person.
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1 Cor 7:
3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
There ya go. God said it straight. Married couples should have sex. Lots of it.
If you want more detail about what God wants them to DO then read Song of Solomon.
3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
There ya go. God said it straight. Married couples should have sex. Lots of it.
If you want more detail about what God wants them to DO then read Song of Solomon.
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YouTube - Pleasuring your spouse
Check this out...I think it might be something along the lines of what you're looking for.
LOL...yeah thats a sermon clip, by the way...hahaha
Check this out...I think it might be something along the lines of what you're looking for.
LOL...yeah thats a sermon clip, by the way...hahaha
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