Opposite gender

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Hello.
I have been saved for a few months now, and I am in LOVE with Jesus.
But I have this problem.
I have been with this girl (sorta) for over a year now. She's the one that brought me to the realization.
We're not officially "dating" we just know that we are together, and that God has brought us together.
We believe God wants to use our musical talents to glorify His name.
But we have this problem.
With lust.
We are both absolute Jesus freaks, but we have been drawn into the belief that teens to be "in a relationship" have to do all these terrible things. We haven't had sex, we are waiting until marriage, but we do things at the borderline.
We need help.
We both know it's happening, while it's happening.
But when we go home, we both feel awful.
But then the next day it happens again.
I don't know what is wrong with me.
I've sought help and deliverance, but no results.
I know we need to control ourselves.
We know that we are going to do these bad things, but afterwards we get in a big discussion about how we have to stop and turn from it and be clean.
But it doesn't happen.
We need help.
We need advice.
 
A girl and I went through the same thing as teenagers. "Soul mates". "Meant to be" all of that stuff. It's hormones kiddo, the best thing to do is stay away from each other for the sake of purity. Real marriages develop very slowly as sparks that grow into forest fires. Lust is like a cannon, BOOM explosion of fire (lustful passion) and then there is nothing left but smoke. We ended up getting into a very sex laden long-term relationship and both were guilty all of the time. Then we split up as we grew into different people and never ended up getting married!
 
Praying for oth of you in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Try only seeing each other when in a group or with a shaperone.
Sometimes the old standbys are the best solution. :)

God bless.
pickles
 
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