Please Help me!

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I am in need of prayer, in need of help. And just dont know where to turn. I am confused, I am hurt, and I am lost! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, I love him, and we have a beautiful little girl. The thing is, everytime I feel like we are finally moving forward, someone seems to come along and try to break us apart. Then I seem to get these thoughts in my head that he is cheating on me, he doesn't really love me, and it makes me very unhappy. And I just want to be able to shake these thoughts, I want to be able to see the love me and him once shared. Please can someone help me, help me shake these thoughts, pray for me to find the love and happiness, to find the trust I once had for him. Please! Thank you, God Bless.
 
First of all, why are you having these thoughts.
Does he give you reasons to feel insecure.

If he does...you need to work that out before you marry him.

If it is all just you and your imagination, God can help you with that.
I will pray for you too! Love in Jesus, Shekaniah

Everytime you start to feel anxious quote scripture.

Phil 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

2 Cor 10:5
Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ


 
Praying for you both and for your beautiful little girl and for all that will be a whole family in Jesus Christ is Lord.

Hugs and God bless :)
pickles
 
Kristie Lee, I'm sorry this is happening.

Perhaps it would be good to ask the Lord...why?
Is He saying something to you through this?
Maybe something He wants to show you?

I don't know, my dear, it's speculation,
but I find often God is trying to help me see something about myself,
or about Him. :)

I do know it's never a bad idea to put our eyes on Jesus,
and Him only.
Looking only to Him for our answers, our love, our peace. :)
For it's in Him all things are, and they are good!

I am praying with my sisters for your peace, sweet heart.
And for your precious little girl, and for the promise of being a family. ♥

love in Christ,
ellie
 
You might not agree with my interpretation of Scripture, but I think in God's eyes, the daughter makes you two married. You have rights, and needs. That baby is a 30 year commitment for you, and you need him to be committed also. Whether the ideas that he is interested enough in other women to let his head be turned is yours or is real, the two of you need to acknowledge your feelings together, and pray about what is happening, and take whatever corrective action is needed.

You say you are Christian and just newly saved. You do not say if he is Christian. If he is not, the Bible gives him the right to leave you over your recent salvation. Hopefully, he will not want to, and he will get saved too. In any event, the sooner it's out in the open, the better for you, him, and especially for your daughter.
 
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