im not anorexic but i can relate to low self eteem, I am small for my age as well and im very thin have been all my life, my highest weight was 98lbs, after my 3rd child i was down to 82lbs, i cant seem to keep any weight on and i hate the way i look and the way ppl think im anorexic...i can eat and eat...some days i just feel drained and tired--some days i dnt have an appetite at all for 2 or 3 days---i know when i havent had enough food because then i get nauseous---all i can say is look to Jesus and he will help u thru it---dont be afraid to eat---i am thinking about trying to eat more and excercise so when i finally do gain any weight ill still be in shape---i am 5'3 and like 85lbs prolly---my goal weight is 105-110---so with a little self discipline i hope i can get the motivation to exercise more so i dnt get to big to fast--- eat and exercise, thats the secret =)---look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself over and over how great you look---because as long as you think lowly of yourself, you're gonna think thats how everyone else sees you---it has to start with you---change your way of thinking---take compliments because they will boost your ego and self esteem---i look at myself and cant understand why girls who weigh less then i do think they are fat and ugly---my daughter who is 11 and also small, started talking like that and she is only around 60lbs at most---she looks good for her age---alot of our friends are jealous because after 3 kids im still so small, i dont understand it, im all bone lol thats NOT attractive at all, not to me anyway---i honestly wish i weighed more because the lower ur weight the more you endanger your health---just remember EAT AND EXCERCISE =)