My wife has been a very positive woman for all five years of our marriage. The Bible says that people can be converted by their spouses behavior. I must confess I haven't been as positive as my wife, but she really saved our marriage a few times. She even calls me her best friend. Never give up! A person really could be positive enough to save someone from a bad situation. In conclusion, my wife wins because she focuses on Jesus and everything possitive (just a little advice); you could win a good arguement with possitive faith.