Pray for change!

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kburzinski

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I did not know I was being clingy to my girlfriend and not sure how not to be, she said I am pushing her away... She wants to fall in love. She said we need are own lives as well. We talk through a bunch of stuff know we just need to put it into action. But how and what does it look like, I can from a rough back ground and not good with relationships...I do not want to lose her. She said I am over crowding her space, I am pushing her away and she don't like it. She also said the way I am treating her is not working. I not sure how to change and yes I have issues. Advice please and prayers in change and saving this relationship.
 
pickles

pickles

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Continueing to pray for both of you in Jesus.

God bless
pickles
 
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shekaniah

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I will pray....
 
PopClick

PopClick

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Advice... you need to take a break from the relationship. Nobody likes to be smothered, so just give her space for a little while. That means, don't see her, call her, text her, etc. Leave her alone for a while. And "a while" doesn't mean one hour.

While you're doing that, take the time that you would normally spend on her... and spend it with God. That "rough background" and "issues" you have? Give them to God. "Cast ALL of your cares on Him... because He cares for you." And you're right, you don't know how to change. So ask Him to change you. Turn your life over to God completely, and ask Him to take control. If you are His, then the issues are His as well. And He can take care of them, erase them, turn you around, change you for the better. Ask Him to. :)

When you have peace about the situation, when it feels like there has been some resolution or change, and you don't feel so flustered... call your gf, tell her you've been trying to work things out with God, and you'd like to take things one step at a time. But don't stop praying, God needs to remain your focus even after you two are talking again.

I will pray for you, as well.
 
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FatnWeak

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I am in agreement with Popclick, you need to put the Lord first in your life. What is her personal relationship with God like? Does she have one at all? Ask yourself if remaining with her will bring honor to God or dishonor? The Lord will not help you in your situation if dishonor will stem from it. Either way I will pray to the Lord for you so He may guide you to do His will. Showing mercy, kindness, love, patience, forgiveness, being a witness of His awesome love for us. To be Christ like in character. God bless.
 
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