prayer for evil thoughts fetishes n fantasies

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Every one i am in need of some serious prayer ive had these fantasies ever since my boyfriend introduced

me in to them he thought our life together was boring he told me i wasn't pleasing him enough i tried to tell him i

couldn't do what he wanted because long before exploring God my mom had told me what he wanted me to do

was forbidden in Gods eyes so i told him no then he hurt me he said you don't love me he has been abusing me

because of it how can i show him that i love him how can i please my boyfriend without getting out of the will of

God?


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Sis, never try to fit your life and your relationship with God into other peoples expectations, but rather let other people fit into your life and the principals you have set. Sometimes you may get heart broken, but what is the point of being with someone who doesn't love you or like you for who you are and the principals you have set for yourself. If you do what all other people want you to do and do not set principals on your personal do's and don'ts, things will get worse and worse. If he doesn't like you for who you are, cut your relationship with him. It is better to lose one friend and get hurt for a short while than to fall and live your life with many regrets. I will pray for guidance and strength for you. God bless
 
he does like me for who i am we've been going out for a long time now he told me that he puts up with me

saying no so long

because he loves me hes showed me his love he walked in the blistering cold miles for me when i was sick just to

get me medicine to get well again he takes me out treats me special he put a necklace in my mail on valentines

day with a i love you note he always makes me smiles he just keeps saying he wonts more from our relationship.
 
Dearie,NOONE has the right to draw u away from God. To know Christ is to never give in to compromise.Someone that really loves u and really loves God would never make you go through that. Now, who are you tryoing to please? God or your boyfriend? You are not to seek the approval of/seek 2 please your boyfriend, you are to seek the approval of/seek to please the ONE with the nail-scarred hands...He is not God's best for you,trust me.
I just got out of a relationship where the guy was kinda drawing me away 4rm God. Purity and righteousness-Christians shouldnt trade these 4 anything,u shouldn't. why?? Cos God comes first! From ur msg,there's no way u can please him w/o getting outta the will of God. Flee...dat's what u've gotta do..Flee! Let him go!
Lay down ground rules,godly principles....make it plain and if he or others are unwilling to go by them,then they probably were not meant to be a part of ur life. God says 'everything works out for God for those who love Him'. Trust me, u do not want to live with regrets.. My prayer 4 u is that God will guide u and give u the wisdom,courage and grace to handle this..
God's rich grace.............
 
Sis, never try to fit your life and your relationship with God into other peoples expectations, but rather let other people fit into your life and the principals you have set. Sometimes you may get heart broken, but what is the point of being with someone who doesn't love you or like you for who you are and the principals you have set for yourself. If you do what all other people want you to do and do not set principals on your personal do's and don'ts, things will get worse and worse. If he doesn't like you for who you are, cut your relationship with him. It is better to lose one friend and get hurt for a short while than to fall and live your life with many regrets. I will pray for guidance and strength for you. God bless

Shemaiah has good insight...If you can't make him completely happy now...chances are you will never measure up. I will be praying for you...in Jesus name, Amen