Prayer Request Please!!! Terrible Break Up!!!

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After 6 years in a committed relationship I found out my girlfriend cheated, not once but many times and when I told her that I knew about it all she gets mad, stops talking to me and jumps right into another relationship! It happened so fast my heads still spinning! I was told she doesn't miss me and has basically forgotten about us all together but all the way to the end she told me she loves me, kisses me goodbye and always made me feel like I was #1. I've been through many break up's in my life, I'm even divorced but I've never seen anyone treat another the way she treated me! I'm reaching out for help, it's much appreciated!
 
I'm praying for you man! Remember, God will keep you in perfect peace if you keep your mind on him! (Isaiah 26:3)
 
Sorry to hear that man... I will pray for you.
6 years is a very long time to be in a committed relationship without being married. I honestly believe that long term "boyfriend girlfriend" relationships are not a good thing for a christian. Dating should be for a short period, and with the focus on finding that one person that you feel is the right one for marriage. That's just my opinion brother. Paul Washer has a good sermon on this on youtube ... as do many other good preachers.
I know it hurts when you find out something like this, but it is also a blessing, because now you know for sure she is not the one for you... now you can move on and be about your Fathers business. As I always say, if I ever find the right woman for me, it will be a woman that without a doubt loves God more than anything else...including me. I wish you well, keep your head up !
 
Praying for you in Jesus for all streangth and comfort, praying for you girlfriend as well.

God bless.
pickles
 
BROTHER MAYBE SHE IS NOT THE ONE FOR... I PRAY WHEN TIME PASSES BY YOU WILL SEE THAT GOD WAS USING HER TO OPEN THE WAY FOR YOUR FUTURE PARTNER... PLS DNT STOP PRAYING BUT CONTINUE TO PRAY ...
 
Your girlfriend has mega issues and is not worthy of you. Of course it hurts. Recommend counseling with a minister or
professional so you don't lapse into bitterness or hating all women over one person's actions. Get plenty of support.
Read Psalm 23 for comfort, consider a retreat to get away, perhaps with other men who may be dealing with similar
issues. God bless.
 
savatreatabvr said:
After 6 years in a committed relationship I found out my girlfriend cheated, not once but many times and when I told her that I knew about it all she gets mad, stops talking to me and jumps right into another relationship! It happened so fast my heads still spinning! I was told she doesn't miss me and has basically forgotten about us all together but all the way to the end she told me she loves me, kisses me goodbye and always made me feel like I was #1. I've been through many break up's in my life, I'm even divorced but I've never seen anyone treat another the way she treated me! I'm reaching out for help, it's much appreciated!
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That must be a terrible feeling. The word ''loathing'' comes to mind.

But please, don't loath, because that can lead to bitterness, and bitterness to offense, and offense to sin.

I know this is a hard thing. Days feel like nights. Nights feel darker than nights. Like you soul is broken. I know this feeling.

But every time I think of this. I think of just how much Jesus loves us, even though we do the same exact thing. We make him feel like he is number one. And then just like that, we are off to mess around with something or someone else. Just like that!!

We will pray. May Jesus bless you.
 
I know she's not the right one and there's no way I'd even remotely consider getting back together but it's times like right now when I know shes with him doing the same things we used to do that hurt the most! I'd never in a million years wish this pain on anyone, not even my worst enemy but what can I do, absolutely nothing! I'm a trooper, I've been through a lot in my life so I'll just man up, act like it doesn't bother me and take it with a smile on my face! I've read everyone's positive comments and a few twice, they helped me realize there are still good people out there with good hearts and souls, I really appreciate it! Thank you all!!!

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BROTHER MAYBE SHE IS NOT THE ONE FOR... I PRAY WHEN TIME PASSES BY YOU WILL SEE THAT GOD WAS USING HER TO OPEN THE WAY FOR YOUR FUTURE PARTNER... PLS DNT STOP PRAYING BUT CONTINUE TO PRAY ...
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Jesus you dry our tears, you show us mercy even when we are unworthy of your love, and you are gracious when we call to you in our pain & anguish. Jesus I ask you to show this brother the plan you have for his life. Please show him the wonderful godly relationship that will include you while completing him. Lord I ask you to give him wisdom for his future relationships. Lord I ask you to draw him closer to you. Lord I ask you to heal his heart and draw him closer to you. We again thank you for your mercy. And we again recognize you are the Almighty God of everything and the things you do are beyond our comprehension. Amen.
 
Sounds like she has an emptyness she is trying to fill with the wrong things. You be strong! Ask God for wisdom.
I do all the time and I'm surpised at the answers I get. I will also ask God to give you peace that surpasses all understanding and to lead and direct your heart.
In His Service, Shekaniah
 
Thank you!

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Jesus you dry our tears, you show us mercy even when we are unworthy of your love, and you are gracious when we call to you in our pain & anguish. Jesus I ask you to show this brother the plan you have for his life. Please show him the wonderful godly relationship that will include you while completing him. Lord I ask you to give him wisdom for his future relationships. Lord I ask you to draw him closer to you. Lord I ask you to heal his heart and draw him closer to you. We again thank you for your mercy. And we again recognize you are the Almighty God of everything and the things you do are beyond our comprehension. Amen.
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Thank you!

shekaniah said:
Sounds like she has an emptyness she is trying to fill with the wrong things. You be strong! Ask God for wisdom.
I do all the time and I'm surpised at the answers I get. I will also ask God to give you peace that surpasses all understanding and to lead and direct your heart.
In His Service, Shekaniah
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Sometimes God moves people out of our lives for us, becasue He has something so much better for us than we could have ever imagined!!! He has just the right girl for you, that will honor you, treat you with respect, love and cherish you, encourage you, help build you up in your faith, and most of all love your God as you do, and puts God first in her life. It will all be worth the wait. I watched my son go through almost the same thing, and almost married this girl, though a Christian, cheated on him with hs best friend. He went through some dating after that, came close to marriage, but God moved these women out of the picture too, because he had just the right girl waiting for him. It is all in God's timing. His ways of doing things are not our ways. Then came along in God's timing just the right girl for him!!! The girl that married him adores him, and they are so perfectly matched, and is a wonderful wife and mother. And I, as a mom couldn't ask for more for my son! I see God's hand all over their love and devotion to eachother! And the girl he sooo wanted to marry that married his best friend, cheated on his best friend too after they were married.

So take heart. I know the pain is so raw and cuts so deep, right now. But God promises us rejoicing for our sorrow. He has just the right one for you. Trust Him for that, and let your pain drive you to God! He is there to hear every word. He wants you to come to Him for comfort, for guidance, for wisdom and direction. He is waiting for you.

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

I pray God will teach you in the way you should go, willl counsel you and watch over you, and give you wisdom, and heal your brokenheart and bind up your wounds, as He has promised in His word. And He will, as you look to Him, and trust his voice, His word, His peace in your heart, and ask Him to fill you with His wisdom, as He has a whole new life waiting ahead for you!!!!

Thank you for letting me pray for you! May God surround you with His blessing and His favor like a shield all around you!!
 
Ok here you must relaize this person may not be for you. A relationship has to have 50% from each side. She may have jsut been using you, but you may have caused it urself. Please take in consideration of wht the factors are from your self as well. But when someone is the one they will love you no matter wht and don't do that sort of thing so easily.
Pray to God for your answers what is the situation here.
 
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