Prayers for my Addiction

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Jagss

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Jan 25, 2020
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I have been struggling with a sexual addiction for a year at least and a lot of the times want to read sexual story's about sex and lust. Please pray for my addiction. Also is this a sin?
 

Adstar

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Yeah it is a sin.. Believe Jesus and trust in the Atonement He secured on the cross that saves you from the Eternal penalty for sins..

Matthew 5: KJV
27 "¶ Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: {28} But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."
 

mailmandan

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I once read a poll conducted by a Christian website that indicated a surprising number of Christians are addicted to pornography. The poll results indicated that 50% of all Christian men and 20% of all Christian women are addicted to pornography. The people who struggle with the repeated pursuit of sexual gratification include church members, deacons, staff, and even clergy. No one is exempt! The struggle is real!

Now how many Christians (especially) men can honestly say, "whenever I am tempted to lust, I NEVER give in." I have 100% conquered that sin 100% of the time, no problem? If David, who was “a man after God’s own heart,” and other men and women of faith yielded to sexual temptation, it could happen to any of us. Researchers are finding that when people indulge in porn, a powerful chemical in their brain and body is released and there are a growing number of therapists and psychologists who are saying that this is as addictive as alcohol or cocaine or even heroin! :eek: The researchers explained that, when people view porn, "It causes the brain to release what we call endogenous drugs or endogenous chemicals. 'Endogenous' meaning 'produced from within.' So where alcohol and cocaine seek to mimic the brain's natural chemicals, pornography releases the real deal. :eek:

Due to our flesh, we will have to deal with the temptation to lust until we die, but that doesn't mean we have to continuously give into the temptation until we die. The temptation to lust comes in many forms including ungodly sexual appetites; and there are lusts, such as the lust of power, fame or position etc.. We must rely on the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome lust every day. No matter the form of lust we are tempted by, we need to remember that we have a High Priest and Advocate with the Father who understands our every weakness and was tempted in every way as we are, yet was without sin. (Hebrews 4:15; 1 John 2:1)

1 Corinthians 6:18 says to flee sexual immorality! Pour your heart out to Jesus and ask Him for the power to give up your sexual addiction. You can't simply suppress this sin in your own strength and give it up solely in your own power. Apart from Jesus we can do nothing.
 

Bingo

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Feb 9, 2019
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"Pray to fully understand the meaning...'we have met the enemy, and it is us'.
It shall be essential to be in God's care, and this means that we must be willing
to change, otherwise one can expect.... nothing to change...believe it!
Let us pray you come to learn what is needed in your life."


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EmilyFoster

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Jul 10, 2018
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I’m very sorry to hear about your struggles, Jagss. It’s good of you to ask for prayer at this time. Be assured I’m lifting you up, asking God to surround you with His love and protection. May He provide strength and guidance, and help you to overcome your issues as you trust in His grace.

Also, it might be helpful to get in touch with a counselor. I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number 855-382-5433. Hang in there!