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Hey guys, I am looking for some advice. I am currently struggling with my brother in laws attitude. He leads worship on Sunday mornings in our little church on the prairies. He almost always talks about how much God means in his life but when push comes to shove he doesn't turn to God for strength. He runs to the nearest bar. He told me the other day now that his support people are back things should get better. Shouldn't he be running to God for support and not relying on people to keep him sober? Every time a bad thing happens in his life he runs to a bottle. We just recently found out that his father has cancer, my brother in law started drinking. He found out that his son is being raised by his grandmother because the mother of the child is a drunk, my brother in law bought a large bottle of booze to drown his sorrows. I feel that he is be very hypocritical and I couldn't even sit in the sanctuary this morning while he was singing. I know I have to forgive him and try to help him through the rough patches but sometimes he says one thing and completely turns around and does the exact opposite of what he should be doing. Help, what am I supposed to do? I know it is my problem but it has gotten to the point that I took my guitars to church this morning so we could have some music to worship to. I was sure that he would not show up, I have had to just about cut ties with him because my kids are scared of him when he is drunk. Now, with mom visiting dad in the hospital most of the time he seems to drink until he passes out and then when he regains consciousness he begins again. I can't take it anymore.