Question for married women?

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DinoDillinger

DinoDillinger

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I hear single women all the time when listing off what they look for in guys and one of them is always a good sense of humor. Which I can understand, but my question is, do you still find him funny after 10, 15, 25 years? Is it really a quality that you are glad he has now, or kinda wish that he would have now that you have had to laugh at his unfunny jokes for all these years?

Thanks in advance. :)
 
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nanabean

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Hi DinoDillinger.......first of all let me say that to me, a sense of humor doesn't mean rattling off jokes at every turn...nor does it mean to joke around at every opportunity. I love my hubby's sense of humor because it is a bit..quiet. He just kinda slips something in every once in a while, which makes him even funnier than if he were a jokester all the time. Also, to have a sense of humor means (to me anyway) that he understands a joke..and takes things AS a joke when they are intended as such. And yes......after 24 plus years of marriage I do find him as fun and as funny as I ever did..maybe even more so, since because of all we have shared, we "get" each other sometimes without even a spoken word!
 
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Desi36

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Well I have only been married 2 years this June 21st but yes a sence of humour is a must. I agree with nanabean its not the kind of hurom that is over the top but the suttle jokes. The fun jokes that only you and your husband understand......when your busting a gut and the people around you look at you like your crazy but it makes sense to the two of you. I have to say I HOPE we keep the laughter going though out our marrage........I mean we are Best Friends!! If you can`t laugh with your Best Friend who can you laugh with!!
I know you wanted replys from people married a lot longer than I but I just had to reply!!

Desi36
 
Karelia

Karelia

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I have been married for 13 years and for me it is important that my husband has a great sense of humour. My idea of good humour isn't a collection of jokes I must laugh at, though, but it's all about seeing something funny in situations you encounter in your daily life. If others feel it's their obligation to laugh, the humour cannot be very good. It's also important to see when it's the right time to joke and when not.
 
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alshanahan

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i'm having trouble with my husband and i unsure of what to do, i love him more then i thought i knew when we married but i'm to the point of not knowing what God wants me to do.
 
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SSA3g

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I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION WITH MY HUSBAND TOO, I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
 
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SSA3g

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YOU SOUND LIKE ME
 
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Eagle5

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Laughter is what keeps a person endorphins supplied that contributes to their happiness. knowing when and what to joke @ is what keeps a marriage together. Life will give you lemons and knowing when to laugh and make lemonade is the secret to a happy marriage. But more important in a marraige is a man that will lead his family spiritually, financially, emotionally and lovingly! those qualities I would take over joking anyday after 25 years of marriage!
 
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