Well... I get pursued by girls a lot... and I know that sounds a lot like ChristianGuru, and I sound awfully conceited by saying that... I'm not trying to be or anything close to that... I'm just trying to give a perspective here... but anyways... girls tend to pursue me a lot... ok...
Well, I find it okay.. I mean I'm sort of used to it... but... I also find it unattractive. A girl really shouldn't be pursuing the guy, at least not beyond a little bit of introduction and possibly "hey how are you doing lately?" type of deal. Don't chase the guy nonstop to where you are ALWAYS calling him first, texting him first, whatevering him first. You need to make him chase you back, or he obviously isn't very interested... and you only make him less interested by pursuing so much. It's a huge push/pull game honestly... but... everyone wants what they cant have... and the more you give yourself on a silver platter, the less someone will want you for it. There are obvious cases where this rule doesn't apply, but I think it's standard enough to mention here. Make sure they chase you back. Don't be the only one pursuing, or you won't get the guy, and you will probably end up getting hurt in the process. That's just my opinion though.