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Hi everyone,
I just wanted to start of by saying that I'm a very young Mother (21 years old), and my daughter just turned 7 years old in June. We're both Christian (Since Sept. 2011), and we both read our Bibles daily, or every other day. My daughter is extremely well behaved. She loves God, and understands the Bible very well. We both attend Bible study (One for adults, and one for children.) We attend both together.
About 2-3 weeks ago I caught her with my boyfriend's daughter "kissing with Barbies, under the blankets.") I was extremely distraught because this wasn't the first time. Now, I know that it's "normal" for kids to "experiment" but as a Christian family I think that she shouldn't be "experimenting" at such a young age, even if it is just kissing with Barbies. I told her that because she didn't obey the rules that her barbies would be taken away (And, to be honest, she won't die without her barbies anyways!) So, I took them away. Tonight, I was checking my history on my computer looking for a website I previously visited and I saw a website titled "Kissing Games for Girls." I'm seperated from her Father and she was staying there with him, so I called her at his house and asked her what she was doing on the computer. She admitted everything, and I told her that she wasn't aloude on the computer for a while, and she was grounded.
I feel that she's really adimit on the whole "kissing" thing. It's as if she's very interested in the whole thing. She's also supervised while watching TV, and she's not aloude to watch more than an hour a day (Just so I can make sure she's not watching anything she's not supposed to. For example there's this show calling "Tod, and the book of pure Evil. That doesn't sound like a good show at all, yet it's on the KIDS channel!)
I really, really need some Christian advice. I've even searched the Bible and I can't find much. I know, that a lot of you may think I'm too "strict" with her. I really feel that I'm not, and we do a lot of things together to make up for the loss of brain cells, lol.
So everyone, and anyone! Please give me some ideas!
I just wanted to start of by saying that I'm a very young Mother (21 years old), and my daughter just turned 7 years old in June. We're both Christian (Since Sept. 2011), and we both read our Bibles daily, or every other day. My daughter is extremely well behaved. She loves God, and understands the Bible very well. We both attend Bible study (One for adults, and one for children.) We attend both together.
About 2-3 weeks ago I caught her with my boyfriend's daughter "kissing with Barbies, under the blankets.") I was extremely distraught because this wasn't the first time. Now, I know that it's "normal" for kids to "experiment" but as a Christian family I think that she shouldn't be "experimenting" at such a young age, even if it is just kissing with Barbies. I told her that because she didn't obey the rules that her barbies would be taken away (And, to be honest, she won't die without her barbies anyways!) So, I took them away. Tonight, I was checking my history on my computer looking for a website I previously visited and I saw a website titled "Kissing Games for Girls." I'm seperated from her Father and she was staying there with him, so I called her at his house and asked her what she was doing on the computer. She admitted everything, and I told her that she wasn't aloude on the computer for a while, and she was grounded.
I feel that she's really adimit on the whole "kissing" thing. It's as if she's very interested in the whole thing. She's also supervised while watching TV, and she's not aloude to watch more than an hour a day (Just so I can make sure she's not watching anything she's not supposed to. For example there's this show calling "Tod, and the book of pure Evil. That doesn't sound like a good show at all, yet it's on the KIDS channel!)
I really, really need some Christian advice. I've even searched the Bible and I can't find much. I know, that a lot of you may think I'm too "strict" with her. I really feel that I'm not, and we do a lot of things together to make up for the loss of brain cells, lol.
So everyone, and anyone! Please give me some ideas!