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hiestand22

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I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years about 2 months ago. We were very close friends, but I had to take a break when I stumbled into a very deep pit of porn and masturbation. It killed me to let her go and I made up some reasons why it had to end. Our communication wasn't the best and needed improvement, but we were great together. She hasn't talked to me since and won't even look at me. I am sad and depressed because I have lost my close friend for my sin. I want to at least try to talk to her and be friends at least, but I don't know what to do. I am still upset after two months alone, and I broke up with her. I need your advice please!

WILL SOMEBODY PLEASE ANSWER ME!
 
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MatthewMichael

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We all live and learn buddy.... You're only 16. I know that sounds lame, but it's true. We men sometimes have a habit of getting comfortable with a woman to the point where we think we call the shots...

Moral: Of course you're upset. You broke up with a real-live female to watch porn.

Your best bet is to go to her and admit everything in a completely honest and loving way. Don't candy-coat it. Don't beat around the bush.. No pun intended. Just tell her how much of a fool you feel like and that you made a mistake. Tell her that you miss her... and ditch the porn dude. It's a deeeep rabbit hole that leads to E.D. later in life. YOU CAN'T UNSEE SOMETHING.
 
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Lucy68

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Write her a letter. Letters are wonderful for putting your thoughts and reasons down without interruption or distraction. Be honest about your confusion and stumbling. She may have to think about it for a little while, but if she's a compassionate person she will, eventually, agree to speak with you face-to-face.

Maybe she was hurt a great deal and that hurt turned into resentment and bitterness...so it may take some effort to get through that. It would be wonderful if you both could at least be friends.

God honors our attempts to right any wrongs we've committed. As long as it doesn't cause other problems and you accept the possibility that she just doesn't want to be reconciled. But at least you've tried.
 
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