My thoughts:
I agree, sin sucks. We don't want any part of it. We need to lay it down and run forward looking to Jesus.
I agree, we need to repent. And it should take us into obedience.
But not everybody needs "heart-felt sorrow" to have "heart-felt" obedience.
If you did something wrong, did you parents punish you until you cried for you to change your mind about your actions? I hope not.
Scripture continually compares our "evil" parents to the "goodness" of our Father. So why would He need to do less.
Does godly sorrow have its place? Yes.
Does repentance HAVE to be godly sorrow or it's worthless? That's religion in its highest form.
Which interestingly is exactly what a tradition of man is:
You can tell religious ideas because they exclude relationship with things like: "have to, must, always". And it attacks freedom which believes in relationship with God and truth is a person. Not a collection of principles Why? Because religion loses its security. Instead of trusting Holy Spirit to guide His people and convict of sin. Religion takes the duty on itself. It often denies the existence of a living God who is well able to teach, train, empower, and equip Himself without the addition of religion's fear, guilt, and control. And those who are under it, generally feel the need to put others under it also.
Religion pointed to Jesus' apparent "false works". He didn't DO things they way they thought it should be done. Jesus pointed to His relationship. He confronted these traditions of man by revealing His relationship. And ultimately empowering us to have the same relationship He has with the Father. How? By giving us His Spirit.
Religion also minimizes its own errors while maximizing others. It desires to be right not righteous. It looks for what it must do to justify itself. And then when others' find their justification in something else, it attacks because at its core it is fear.
Let's for a minute, look at what sin really is. Let's really look at it.
It's not when you do what's wrong. That's a small part of it. But that's not what tripped up the law-keepers is it?
It's actually when you don't do what is right. 24/7. Always doing what is right. Loving the people around you, revealing Christ to them, being good to them, giving to the homeless, the poor, praying for the sick (yes we are commanded to do that), anytime we don't do what is right, this is sin. Anytime we don't do something out of faith, this is sin.
Religion thinks a collection of principles will tell you what you should do. But I promise you, it doesn't have a clue. It looks at what it's NOT doing instead of what it is doing. Why? Because it can't quantify it. How do you know what do and not do? Religion says look at what not to do and everything else is okay. Relationship says look to God and follow Him.
And I promise you one more thing, relationship is the only way to exit religion. Jesus showed us this, He empowered us to walk like Him, and He expects us to teach others the same.
Any focus outside of looking to Him, following Him, hearing His Spirit misses the mark, IMO.
My question is, is what we're teaching, helping people see Him, hear Him, follow Him? Or is it teaching them why they can't do these things? One builds one destroys, one encourages one accuses, and one inspires love the other inspires fear.
2 Tim 1:7 for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
Let us agree. We do not have a spirit of fear. But we do have one of power. One of love. And one of self-control. That means we can follow Him and we can love others.
I think a thread about righteousness is in order, because how can we be in right-standing, if we don't have right-hearing? How can we hear His Spirit and follow what He is doing, if we instead we are lead by what we think is true instead of Him a Person? I want to call us up to a higher level. Let us truly fix our eyes on Jesus Christ and let those who have ears hear what His Spirit is saying. I believe this is righteousness in it's highest form. Following Him. And anything that misses this mark is not repentance.
Any explanation of Repentance must include love, it must include freedom, and it must include following the Spirit of God.