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lesnes

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Im new, still getting over a long term relationship. I was a regular church goer before my common law relationship that started when i was 17, im 31 and its been a year since we seperated. She wasnt raised Christian, and this is alot of the reason i fell i drifted from the Lord. So now im lonely, and used to not being....13 years is a long time, my whole adult life.....and to top it off im pretty closed off and my wall feels ten thousand feet high....I recently started a Sub Contracting business, and that keeps me fairly on the go, sept im loosing it....I need some trust worthy advocates....lol i feel like im posting an add, k im done!
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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Well, I haven't had a girlfriend for going on 8 years and that's after a 5 year relationship. Not even a date. I work for a pittance and have no time to go anywhere or do anything. I don't drink and I'm not into the club scene. I haven't been in a church in years for reasons I don't really want to get into. So talk about alone.I don't even have any prospects or opportunity. I feel your pain.
 
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MeganneCheers

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My fiaance && I ended things about two weeks ago.
I KNOW I'm 15. Feel free to not remind me. It was a really stupid choice.
But the thing to remember is that everytime 1 door closes, 2 more open.
You have to keep looking at life this waay, I may be young, but I'm really wise, && I thinnk youu caan get over this. Branch out! Try dating someonne you never would've even looked at beffffore.


It does beautiful thinngs for the soul, Love<3.
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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I let my wall come down, or at least fall into disrepair and in the end just got burned. Its since been rebuilt and reinforced. I'm waiting for a woman who can breached it to come along. So far I haven't found anyone up to it. My brother did though, how she got through his defences I'll never guess. They are getting married soon.
 
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MeganneCheers

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Well, that's beautiful!
Aww! I'm so jealous. Sweetie, you have to let people through your wall if you want to be happy:)

If someone doesn't let me through, I'm not gonna let them either!
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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Actually more often than not, I have noticed that its the ones that slip through your defences when you arent looking that you notice. Got your eyes looking out, manned all the towers and boiling oil. Rocks ready to drop on the attackers heads. Gate welded shut and bricked in and some how the women manages to find a way in. She slips in through the sewer or something, or maybe found that secret tunnel in the basement you forgot about. Anyway the point is shes in and you dont even care once shes there.

Thats what Im waiting for.

Its happened once for me so Im sure it will happen again.
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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You know you need to put yourself out there. Go to church, talk to people, put up some feelers! Not every woman you ask out needs to become a wife. If Christian men were more assertive I'd probably be married by now instead of being asked out by wordly men every other week.
 
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MeganneCheers

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I've come to realize this:
Never deny a good date.

I'm not saying become easy. UGH. Bad choice.
But if someone who's attractive &&& nice waants to take you on a fun sounding date, go for it! What's the worst that could happen? Don't sit around waiting. It'll break your heaaart. Nothing ever happened while people were sitting around waiting:)


Sending my best.
 
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lesnes

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I appreciate the feedback, letting my guard down hasnt seemed like a personal choice i can control....
 
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