So about asking a girl to hang out...

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dothackzero

dothackzero

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Okay so I met a girl that I want to hang out with outside of work. I've only been able to talk to her a couple of times. Would asking her to goto a Bible Study(At a friends house, not like a church or something). Would that freak her out or something, would I better off asking her to goto the church I goto before the Bible Study?
 
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Bobbyking

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Hi
Engage in clean fun activities that promote the purity of Christ and His Love. I assume that you have a liking for her which is good but get your priorities right too... Help her to grow and mature in Christ among all things, girls like such things And lead her towards God. Have fun!

Going to a bible study grp or church is fine, if you ask my opinion.
 
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Jullianna

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dot, you didn't tell us whether she was a christian and whether you'd discussed matters of faith with her yet. If she's not and/or you haven't, it might be a bit much to start off with. Do something simple and fun first. :) If she's a christian and you think she'd be interested in that though, go for it. :)
 
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djness

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dothackzero said:
Okay so I met a girl that I want to hang out with outside of work. I've only been able to talk to her a couple of times. Would asking her to goto a Bible Study(At a friends house, not like a church or something). Would that freak her out or something, would I better off asking her to goto the church I goto before the Bible Study?
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Why do you want to "hang out" with her?
 
Liamson

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djness said:
Why do you want to "hang out" with her?
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He cries in the corner where nobody sees
He's the kid with the story
No one would believe
He prays every night
"Dear God won't you please
Could you send someone here
Who will love me?"

Who will love me for me
Not for what I have done
Or what I will become
Who will love me for me
'Cause nobody has shown me what love
What love really means

-Lyrics by J.J. Heller


He wants to hang out for something worth more than a kingdom of jewels and everything else this world has to offer.

The only promise God gives us in this life is Love. It is not just a gift it is an ability.
 
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Jullianna

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That's a great start! :) I truly wish you well. Be confident, but not clingy ;)
 
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lightbliss

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I agree with Jullianna.
 
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