So how soon after you become friends with, can you ask her to hang out outside of chu
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Dot man, there really are no rules. 
Everyone is different and unique. I have never felt a need to artificially push someone to hang out. So, I would say "when it doesn't feel forced." As you get to know her, maybe you find out that she likes doing something that you also enjoy doing. Then maybe the next time you do it, you invite her as well.
How long does it take to get to know what she likes? I dunno, a few weeks, a few months? Some people are more open than others.
Sadly, it's not an equation that can be solved. It's something that really has to be made up as you go along.
Everyone is different and unique. I have never felt a need to artificially push someone to hang out. So, I would say "when it doesn't feel forced." As you get to know her, maybe you find out that she likes doing something that you also enjoy doing. Then maybe the next time you do it, you invite her as well.How long does it take to get to know what she likes? I dunno, a few weeks, a few months? Some people are more open than others.
Sadly, it's not an equation that can be solved. It's something that really has to be made up as you go along.
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Dot,
I'd recommend definately asking her out sooner rather than later. If you wait too long she'll either think that you're:
A. Not interested in more than friends.
B. Not confident enough to ask her out.
Either A or B could lead to being friendzoned. (not always, but a high likelyhood). Just be straightforward and go after what you want bro!
The fact is, if she's interested in you, then it WON'T scare her off. If she's not interested, just move on. Women want a man to lead.
Best of luck!
I'd recommend definately asking her out sooner rather than later. If you wait too long she'll either think that you're:
A. Not interested in more than friends.
B. Not confident enough to ask her out.
Either A or B could lead to being friendzoned. (not always, but a high likelyhood). Just be straightforward and go after what you want bro!
The fact is, if she's interested in you, then it WON'T scare her off. If she's not interested, just move on. Women want a man to lead.
Best of luck!
