So how would you ask a girl to goto a Bible study with you?

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I did not know that.

I sleep more in summer then I do in winter. (however I hate cold and like warm) but I have slept up to 16 hours in a day at times.
 
dothackzero said:
Okay, so there's this girl that I haven't talked to in a few months, but I do still have her phone number. Would it be normal to just call her, and talk to her a little bit and just invite her to Bible study even if I've never called her before. Though she did give her phone number.
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YES!!

and you just earned a stinking superhero name in my book! I'm so giving you a rep point!!! Where is that button , I'd give you three right now if I could!!! I'm gonna hit it three times anyway .. Ding ding ding ..
Finally!!!! An action !!!
Atta boy!!!
Yes!!
 
Wait a few more months and then really spring it on her. :rolleyes:

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dothackzero said:
Okay, so there's this girl that I haven't talked to in a few months, but I do still have her phone number. Would it be normal to just call her, and talk to her a little bit and just invite her to Bible study even if I've never called her before. Though she did give her phone number.
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How did you meet her?
 
dothackzero said:
Okay, so there's this girl that I haven't talked to in a few months, but I do still have her phone number. Would it be normal to just call her, and talk to her a little bit and just invite her to Bible study even if I've never called her before. Though she did give her phone number.
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When she gave you her phone number, did she say "call me maybe"? :p

But seriously, I think you should call her and just try and start a conversation and ease into asking her to go with you to a bible study. The worst that can happen is she says no, so, I say go for it.
 
Nautilus said:
Fairly simple, try not to mention your porn addiction
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I'd think that part is kinda obvious. Though it really isn't bad enough that it would be called an addiction.

Donkeyfish07 said:
The question is are you really wanting to go to bible study or do you just want to spend time with her? Why not just ask her out on a date if your interested?
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I'm already going to Bible study. And really I just decided that it's one that I'm gonna keep going too. But yeah, I've just decided to invite her.

GreenNnice said:
How did you meet her?
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When I was going to a Christian club at school.

OceanGrl said:
When she gave you her phone number, did she say "call me maybe"? :p

But seriously, I think you should call her and just try and start a conversation and ease into asking her to go with you to a bible study. The worst that can happen is she says no, so, I say go for it.
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I think I should call her too. But yeah, it seems she's already started talking to me on facebook. Basically I asked her what was up last week, and she finally got a chance to answer. So it'll make things easier when I call her. ^_^
 
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wisebeardman said:
I did not know that.

I sleep more in summer then I do in winter. (however I hate cold and like warm) but I have slept up to 16 hours in a day at times.
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Legendary. I take off my sleeping cap to you, sir.

dothackzero said:
I think I should call her too. But yeah, it seems she's already started talking to me on facebook. Basically I asked her what was up last week, and she finally got a chance to answer. So it'll make things easier when I call her. ^_^
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Good - this is a step in the right direction! And, DotZackHero, you don't have to invite her to this week's bible study. Chat for a bit - but not too long - ask her how she's been, and all that, and if you get the feeling she'd be interested, issue the invite.
 
Maybe, I should just try to talk to her on the phone first. I get really nervous about talking on the more even more than in person.
 
If I were to ask a woman I liked to a Bible Study, I would ask her like this "Hey Baby, would you like to go to a place where you'll be lifted, enlightened, changed and transformed? If you answer yes, we'll go to a 24-hour marathon showing of "Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure", if not we'll go to my Bible Study group.

Reverse psychology always works!!!
 
Powemm said:
YES!!

and you just earned a stinking superhero name in my book! I'm so giving you a rep point!!! Where is that button , I'd give you three right now if I could!!! I'm gonna hit it three times anyway .. Ding ding ding ..
Finally!!!! An action !!!
Atta boy!!!
Yes!!
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Now we're getting rep points for asking girls out??? *cracks knuckles gets out his CC lil' black,er "un-black" book of hotties* Let's seeeeeee *flips pages* lol
 
iTOREtheSKY said:
Now we're getting rep points for asking girls out??? *cracks knuckles gets out his CC lil' black,er "un-black" book of hotties* Let's seeeeeee *flips pages* lol
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LOL!!! Awww man!!!! I wanted to give you one just for cracking you're knuckles .... It's telling me I have to spread them around ... .im excited to hear how this went for him!! Oh the suspense of thrillers ...
Leaves entire basket of rep points for itorethesky at the door ...
 
Powemm said:
LOL!!! Awww man!!!! I wanted to give you one just for cracking you're knuckles .... It's telling me I have to spread them around ... .im excited to hear how this went for him!! Oh the suspense of thrillers ...
Leaves entire basket of rep points for itorethesky at the door ...
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An entire basket of reps for me???? ♥♥♥ Oh...what time shall I pick you up??? A bit of dancing & dinner...then back to the weeping willow for cuddling & stargazing perhaps?
 
You don't date blondes remember and the second strike against me is, I'm from the south.. you might not be able to understand me .. However, I'm pretty creative.. And know sign language.. Well some ....
 
1still_waters said:
You:Dials her number.
*phone rings*
*she answers*
Her: Hello?
You: Bible study. 6pm. Be ready.
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Her: ...huh? You have a wrong number. ...click. *She hangs up.*
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Okay, really. AOK has a legitimate point: what are your intentions with the girl?
Remember, she is precious in God's sight, and all saints of God are to be in the best of behaviors at all times.

If your intentions are limited to evangelize the girl by way of exposing her to Bible Studies, then ring her up and be clear that you are inviting her to a Bible Study for the purpose of encouraging both of your hearts to come hear the Word of God. Should she be receptive to the Word of God, then Praise the Lord! Should she decline, then you're done with that phone number. :D

If your intentions are to befriend the girl for the long run, then be encouraged in your Savior and, by all means, invite the girl not just to a Bible Study, but also invite her out for lunch, for an hour of reading Psalms together at the library, for singing hymns, etc., just befriend her daily (frequently) as a healthy, normal brother would. Nourish her mind with everlasting matters as is knowing Jesus Christ. Those are the best friends a girl can have. :D
 
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