I'm a stander, too (though not in your area). Do you happen to know where I can find a support forum for standers of international/intercultural marriages? It's a specialty area that needs more ministry.
If you haven't already, check out: Rejoice Marriage Ministries, out of Pompano Beach, FL. It has been such a blessing and support to me.
And don't forget, it's not YOU, personally getting attacked it's marriage in general that Satan is attacking all over the world right now. We must band together and assert he won't get so much as an inch of territory!