Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well.
My wife and I separated about 3 months ago and since then I've filed for divorce after not hearing from my wife for over 2 months. I haven't given her reason, there was no abuse on my part or mistreatment whatsoever. I love and adored my family but felt left with no choice.
We have become cool the last few weeks enough to deal with the children together which is awesone to me but anything else concerning me and her she gets sooooo eager to snap off like she's carrying all this hurt and anger, constantly pointing the finger at me and as understanding as I try to be it's still the same insults and absolutely no empathy towards what I've personally gone through, and so I'm tired of apologizing to her, I'm tired of being the nice guy and taking the punches.
Problem is (I'm gonna sound like a woos) I am MADLY in love with this woman and I HATE IT!!!!!
Like when we separated I lost everything and not once during that did she even call and check on me. I've taken care of my family since we married and this was the only time I was absolutely broken and down on my luck I mean down to nothing and I had to depend on friends and family to help me back up, not once had she even checked on me. That alone shouod be enough to get over this, but something in me doesn't want to give up and I'm a very optimistic person I don't believe in giving up. What I mean is, I know what it'd take to loosen her up but even after that I see things going right back down a dark road because she has no remorse at all.
We will be together this weekend and she wants to have dinner but I don't want things to get awkward in the restaurant lol and I don't want my emotions to get in the way of the goal (if you understand what I mean) because my wife is gorgeous and my kryptonite lolol
Anyways please offer some tips on how to let her go because even still, with all of the beautiful souls around, my Wife is still the only woman I want, I don't mean to sound foolish I'm just saying I still only want her.
Yes we've done marriage counseling; professional and church pastor(s). And yes we've taken plenty of trips and many date nights without the kids.
Bless U all.
My wife and I separated about 3 months ago and since then I've filed for divorce after not hearing from my wife for over 2 months. I haven't given her reason, there was no abuse on my part or mistreatment whatsoever. I love and adored my family but felt left with no choice.
We have become cool the last few weeks enough to deal with the children together which is awesone to me but anything else concerning me and her she gets sooooo eager to snap off like she's carrying all this hurt and anger, constantly pointing the finger at me and as understanding as I try to be it's still the same insults and absolutely no empathy towards what I've personally gone through, and so I'm tired of apologizing to her, I'm tired of being the nice guy and taking the punches.
Problem is (I'm gonna sound like a woos) I am MADLY in love with this woman and I HATE IT!!!!!
Like when we separated I lost everything and not once during that did she even call and check on me. I've taken care of my family since we married and this was the only time I was absolutely broken and down on my luck I mean down to nothing and I had to depend on friends and family to help me back up, not once had she even checked on me. That alone shouod be enough to get over this, but something in me doesn't want to give up and I'm a very optimistic person I don't believe in giving up. What I mean is, I know what it'd take to loosen her up but even after that I see things going right back down a dark road because she has no remorse at all.
We will be together this weekend and she wants to have dinner but I don't want things to get awkward in the restaurant lol and I don't want my emotions to get in the way of the goal (if you understand what I mean) because my wife is gorgeous and my kryptonite lolol
Anyways please offer some tips on how to let her go because even still, with all of the beautiful souls around, my Wife is still the only woman I want, I don't mean to sound foolish I'm just saying I still only want her.
Yes we've done marriage counseling; professional and church pastor(s). And yes we've taken plenty of trips and many date nights without the kids.
Bless U all.