How do you know a guy who is after God?
YOU be after God and you will know, for God will show.
christ peeps god is not going to give you a guy or a girl unless you are ready showing your maturity to serve him like Abraham willingness to submit in complete obedience to God's will.
That act by Abe pleased God? Why?
Because of Abraham's faith? Yes, but IF you read that Genesis 22, it says that God knew from Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his only son, Isaac, that he showed a 'fear to God.'
So, IF you think you are ready for finding right mate, you will know because you are fearing God, and, I like what my profile verse says...
God is please with those who 'are contrite and tremble at My word.'
This is talking about scripture, some, but, with the Holy Spirit leading you, you are listening to which direction your life is going. And, am I talking about audible Holy Spirit voice? Maybe, but , not likely, just His power will push you down His path for you.