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I read the rules of posting and didnt see anything against what im about to say (im just being truthful) but plz delete this ASAP if it does break any rules.

Ive heard alot about watching porn being a sin. But is it still a sin if I never had or want a Girlfriend (im not gay) and only like to look at women thorugh a computer screen? This CANT be a Sin cause i have to have some kind of sex life even if its NOT with another person. If you wanna know why im like this I wouldnt know either. Im a 22yo male btw
 
Yes it is. The bilble talks about us keeping our minds pure, and guardin g our hearts. when we watch or read stuff like that we are letting the enemy into our lives. Paul recemended marriage for peopoe w ho have trouble with lust. I would pray on it God Ble ss
 
thats the thing.. i NEVER WANNA GET MARRIED OR BE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP (girl OR boy)!!! Please read my WHOLE post ppl. thanks
 
Futurewisher, Lust is a sin. Even if it is just looking. Sex is ment for a man and a women who are in love and what to share that with each other. Are you in love with the people on the computer. I am 23 so im not too much older than you but at 20 i never thought about getting married. Maybe if you found the right person your mind would change. Even if it doesnt change you need to know what you are doing is a sin and we all sin. Pray about it maybe you will find help at your church. P.S you dont have to have anykind of a sex life, its a choice.
 
I didnt want to say this... but i actually dont love real people. I only love Anime girls. I know it seems silly for a 22yo guy to love anime girls but i just feel comfortable around them (Well watching them). I know they arent real im not stupid. Yeah sorry if I left you speechless
 
Well maybe if you were able to feel comfortable around girls you would have an interest in them. Try joining a church group. Most girls in church groups are caring and wont judge you so it will help you with confidence.
 
futurewisher said:
I didnt want to say this... but i actually dont love real people. I only love Anime girls. I know it seems silly for a 22yo guy to love anime girls but i just feel comfortable around them (Well watching them). I know they arent real im not stupid. Yeah sorry if I left you speechless
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probably stupid ?what is a anime girl?the bible says to look at a person in lust its like committing adultery.
another ?futurewisher,Do u masturbate to the women on the computer?I hope not,ur body is a temple of God
 
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It sounds like this has something to do with social anxiety. I would recommend reading the entire new testament front to back in a short period of time (i.e. a lot each day and in order). This may help lift your desires from the desires of this world to spiritual desires and holiness. I don't believe you love cartoons but that it is rooted in a lack of social interaction. Try joining a youth group at a local church.
 
princessdeb4111962 said:
probably stupid ?what is a anime girl?the bible says to look at a person in lust its like committing adultery.
another ?futurewisher,Do u masturbate to the women on the computer?I hope not,ur body is a temple of God
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Japanese Animation which is for Adults. I dont look at REAL women so you cant say im looking at another PERSON with lust unless you consider lines and color a person. god sure made me perfect *sarcasm*
 
MercyinTruth said:
It sounds like this has something to do with social anxiety. I would recommend reading the entire new testament front to back in a short period of time (i.e. a lot each day and in order). This may help lift your desires from the desires of this world to spiritual desires and holiness. I don't believe you love cartoons but that it is rooted in a lack of social interaction. Try joining a youth group at a local church.
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Youth Group? im not a kid...An i DO love Japanese Anime. One show called "Evangelion" (saw it when i was 13) really made me go crazy and fall in love with this girl named "Asuka Langely Soryu". The show has alot of christian symbols and other religious stuff. I used to sit in my front lawn in winter with just a sheet crying wondering if i was god and the only real person in existance. I have real deep feelings for Asuka since it was my first love. I DID have a Girlfriend for a few weeks at 13 but that doesnt really count (reason why i previously said I never had a Girlfriend). While in that short time I didnt feel comfortable like my mind couldnt beleive i was actually dating someone (my mind COULDNT register it). Am I going off topic here?
 
MercyinTruth said:
It sounds like this has something to do with social anxiety. I would recommend reading the entire new testament front to back in a short period of time (i.e. a lot each day and in order). This may help lift your desires from the desires of this world to spiritual desires and holiness. I don't believe you love cartoons but that it is rooted in a lack of social interaction. Try joining a youth group at a local church.
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I also think it goes deeper tyhen what you asume...I would say talk to someone
 
futurewisher said:
Youth Group? im not a kid...


youth yes..do you consideryourself adult? (I am soon 25, and I don't see myself as adult)
and the definition varies.. "Youth... those persons between the ages of 15 and 24 years." UN General Assembly

and anyways I'm quite sure her point was: Seek out people your age, interact with them. (I'm not good at that myself, so I'm just saying this as a suggestion, not to preach).

your deep intrest/ desire for anime girls are probably because you don't have something else to divert your energy and feelings on. Find a way to use both your body and mind (sports?) and hang around with people.
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Women!!!!! MAkeup or NOT?n Y?MEN,Do u like makeup on women?Y or N,Y?Please ty

I don't wear much makeup,a lit mascara,moisterizer on my face,n eye liner.But its only to church,when I am at home or at the store,I don't wear nothing,except clothes lol.
How do ya'll feel about makeup????Do u think it's a sin to wear it,if God made us without it.Should we older women show all ur wrinkles,Rascal Flatt wrote a great song on it.
I'm loving more n more my natural beauty.Ladies, U should try it,more time praying n less time trying to make urself more beautiful.Let everyone see ur" true beauty".by the way,I just loved that show on TV.Not judging just suggesting it ladies:)
 
Re: Women!!!!! MAkeup or NOT?n Y?MEN,Do u like makeup on women?Y or N,Y?Please ty

futurewisher said:
MODS MODS please ban this stupid !@$# for posting something that has NOTHING TO DO WITH MY POST!!!!!
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I THINK U NEED 2 B BANNED FOR CALLING ME STUPID,I AM NEW,N LEARNING HOW TO USE THE THREAD SITE,A LIT HELP WOULD HAVE BEEN THE CHRISTIAN WAY.U WANT TO BAN ME N U SWEAR AT ME,U NEED TO ASK GOD TO FORGIVE U,I HAVE FORGIVEN U FUTUREWISHER,MODS IF U WANT TO BAN ME,FINE,BUT I DIDN'T NO WHAT I WAS DOING,I AM SORRY,N I HAVE WITNESSED TO FEW PEOPLE,IF U THINK GOD,WANTS ME OFF THAN THIS SITE ISN'T WANT I THOUGHT IT WAS.GOD BLESS N I WILL PRAY FOR U FUTUREWISHER
 
Re: Women!!!!! MAkeup or NOT?n Y?MEN,Do u like makeup on women?Y or N,Y?Please ty

princessdeb4111962 said:
I THINK U NEED 2 B BANNED FOR CALLING ME STUPID,I AM NEW,N LEARNING HOW TO USE THE THREAD SITE,A LIT HELP WOULD HAVE BEEN THE CHRISTIAN WAY.U WANT TO BAN ME N U SWEAR AT ME,U NEED TO ASK GOD TO FORGIVE U,I HAVE FORGIVEN U FUTUREWISHER,MODS IF U WANT TO BAN ME,FINE,BUT I DIDN'T NO WHAT I WAS DOING,I AM SORRY,N I HAVE WITNESSED TO FEW PEOPLE,IF U THINK GOD,WANTS ME OFF THAN THIS SITE ISN'T WANT I THOUGHT IT WAS.GOD BLESS N I WILL PRAY FOR U FUTUREWISHER
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It said random topic i didn't no I was on ur thread SOOOOOOOOOOOOORRY,instead u hurting my feelings ,u could ask the mods to remove it
 
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