I've noticed if you bump up your income to say 80 to 100k.. you get more hits on your profile. And those side on photos are the worst..like when fat people try to pretend their skinnier by taking a photo of their face from the side. But, I'd highly recommend this type of dating services for anyone over 40...you're mature, usually well grounded , and getting someone over 40 who can use a computer is a real plus!