i am praying for a peaceful way(i know she's going to get REALLY disrespectful) to tell a niece to call before she comes over.. and to stop bringing her friends kids over here when she's babysitting, and bringing her friends because the last thing i want on my one day off is a noisy house or people on my porch and they stay all day when i just want to relax and rest. she acts like she lives here , it's too much even if your not home she will wait on the porch, even when it's just my husband and i in the house alone . it's 1 in the morning and she's just leaving and i'm praying she is not trying to move back in because the last time i opened our house to her it was a HORRIBLE NIGHTMARE,she is the ONLY niece or nephew i actually asked to LEAVE MY HOUSE and not to come back , my life was totally stressed out, my then 14 year old was stressed, i don't want her to feel not welcomed but i actually do not want to stay in my own house when she's here and i feel totally GUILTY for feeling like this because i am a Christian