what to do???:/

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KariGR23

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im trying so hard to forget my feelings for a very good friend of mine but I cant seem to snap out of it and whats worse is that he has a girlfriend and I cant help but envy her a bit how do I stop these feelings of mine that kinda messed up my friendship with him already
 

JimJimmers

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Apr 26, 2012
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Well Kari, it's not so much that you can stop your feelings as you can fill your mind with other things and not let it bother you.

You can meet new people, pray, develop new talents and activities, etc.
 
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KariGR23

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#3
thnk u ill try to focus on others things and not let it bother me
 
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Chezz

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#4
And I guess you can also pray for those feelings to go away :)
 
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Practice-English

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#5
DON'T WORRY,
I UNDERSTAND
IT BECAUSE,
I EVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION...
 

mystdancer50

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Feb 26, 2012
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Prayer is your best hope here. I will tell you, though, that the feelings will take time to leave you. They always do. I always say that I would rather wait for God's best than settle for less. Take your time, process how you feel (don't stuff the feelings or lie about them), and let time lead you further down the path God has for you. Know that God has a planned designed just for you. Trust Him.
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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Another zombie thread. sigh.. this OP has not been on here since November 2013..