Why don't people like me...

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dothackzero

dothackzero

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Seriouly, I was picked on during elementry, high school, even a little now at college, some workers at work, and even some managers at work.
Where ever I go there are always people that don't me.
Even with in my own group of friends, I'm not sure how they actually care about me...
Even in chat rooms and message boards, I'm always the people don't like.

Even worse girls don't like me or even pay any attention to me...
 
dothackzero said:
Seriouly, I was picked on during elementry, high school, even a little now at college, some workers at work, and even some managers at work.
Where ever I go there are always people that don't me.
Even with in my own group of friends, I'm not sure how they actually care about me...
Even in chat rooms and message boards, I'm always the people don't like.

Even worse girls don't like me or even pay any attention to me...
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Crap, wrong area. Sorry...
 
Most people dont like me........ but you know what i say....... ppsshh.... i cant blame you......
 
Don't sweat it man most people don't like me cause I'm Canadian! I'm just kidding but seriously don't worry about it it's their loss not ours *goes plays in corner with herself*
 
Excuse me it's half moose, half beaver, half poor memory, and half bad a math. thank you very much *goes back to corner mumbling to herself*
 
alot of people dont like me cause I have a problem of talking alot, but for the most people are allways afraid of whats different is all
 
People don't like me cause I'm crazy and generally shy and if they try to talk to me and be nice I go crazy (see beaver conversation) oh well I have God as my friend thats all I need
 
I think I know how you feel dothackzero, because I have a problem called Avoidant Personality Disorder, which ensures that I feel like that no matter the situation. Don't feel singled out for your grief, young 'un.
 
:)There are people that dont like me either. It bothers me sometimes. other times I just dont worry about it.
See I have this problem of letting people taking advanage of me and my husband so we dont really get alot of respect.
Thats a down fall. It gets old fast. I dont like people that are 2 faced. alot of people every were are like that I dont want any part of it................ Dont worry if people like you or not I am going to change. I can still love them but not like what they do. like the bible says love you enemies.......

 
I hope I didnt offend anyone but I am sorry if I did I am just being Honest.
I hope we all have a good day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Jesus Speaks of The World’s Hatred

John Chap 15 Verses 18-25 NKJV
18 “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. 19 If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. 20 Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. 21 But all these things they will do to you for My name’s sake, because they do not know Him who sent Me. 22 If I had not come and spoken to them, they would have no sin, but now they have no excuse for their sin. 23 He who hates Me hates My Father also. 24 If I had not done among them the works which no one else did, they would have no sin; but now they have seen and also hated both Me and My Father. 25 But this happened that the word might be fulfilled which is written in their law, ‘They hated Me without a cause.’
 
most people dont like me but hey... i dont like um either..... ohh well
 
This sounds like me at Dutch Course now. I am somehow not very popular. I am a very good learner, I do are friendly most of the time. Still, since I am very european, and especially Norwegian, most foreign people like from Morocco, Turkey, Somalia, etc... They seem having something against me. Yesterday I got a lot questioned by two ladies from Turkey, I didn't felt comfortable at all. Today in the start of class, when the teacher asked who could tell how the last week had been, one of these ladies was saying; Sylvia Can Tell! As in making fun of me. Or this is how I felt like.

Yesterday they were talking as if my Dutch was very bad, that day I was talking less and not being so focused 'cause I was then feeling very tired in class. So somehow they had noticed my silence. I normally talk a lot and participate during class most days, so I guess yesterday was a fine day for them to notice my wrongs and judge me more easily. Today I went out from class crying, 'cause I thought this was so mean of them to make fun of me in class. When I talked with the teacher this lady came out too, and the way she talked didn't look very honest. She was also happily laughing and smiling when saying that her heart was aching for me. This was all just so unrealistic, and I am quite sure she was just putting up an act. Still, the teacher and some others said that this was all an misunderstanding. :( I really doubt this, yet I have not much proof to show since they weren't there when I got "out-questioned", so it is easy taking this as a deep misunderstanding and that the other ladies that deeply offended me as they didn't meant anything bad with it.

I plan to call my mentor and ask if I can change classes, I would most prefer this. I don't know if this is very possible right away, but at least there is no harm in asking. I have also no friends to support me in class, most people have people they can talk with, especially people from same countries as them. I most of the time feel very lonely in class, and this saddens me a lot. :( It is hard feeling lonely in class. So yeah, in a way I do can relate with how you feel. *Hugs*
 
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