why is it so hard?

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jeremypimp

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have you ever asked yourself why is it so hard to find someone? lately i have been thinking maybe iits just to tough to mess with anymore. maybe i hhave bad luck or suck at picky out the right one. let me know your thoughts on this. ---edited-----
 
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xJoe

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If your going to date i would go to eharmony or Christiancafe.com
don't look for love in a unchristian website. Also maybe its Gods will you be single? Ever thought that?
God will bring someone in your life at his time. It has nothing to do with "I can't find" . She's not a hidden Treasure. God doesn't say find her for I have hidden her somewhere. If you are single and in Gods will then accept it. If he wanted you with someone you'd be with someone right?
The Devil might even tempt you to be desperate and go for less then you should.
My advice is don't be desperate and wait on God.
 

Liamson

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I think this is backwards. We're not filling positions. If you meet someone you really click with then marry them, I would even suggest doing all the things you love and none of the things you don't love, that way its easier to run into someone you really click with.

Don't date, and don't look, just follow your passions.
 

Adrianv125

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follow your passions? yeah I don't think you worded it right. FOLLOW CHRIST!! Ask Him to do His will in your life, and seek to serve Him first. Then He'll pour out His blessing and will on you.
 
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Renewedheart

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follow your passions? yeah I don't think you worded it right. FOLLOW CHRIST!! Ask Him to do His will in your life, and seek to serve Him first. Then He'll pour out His blessing and will on you.
Thats what I did! And boy ohboy has he changed my heart!