So I met this girl at church, and immediately we hit it off. After a few weeks of seeing each other at church, we started hanging out together. We'd cuddle with each other and kiss whenever we were alone, and we talk about everything. After about 10 days of that, she tells me she likes me, but isn't sure if she wants to date me. But the day after that we went to the lake together, and it was more intense cuddling and really couple-y stuff. (btw, we've never gone beyond just kissing and don't plan to)
A few days later she tells me that she considered all that previous stuff as dates, and now she really just wants to be friends. And a week after that, we hang out again and it's back to just us cuddling and going on cute dates and being just like before.
As far as I've seen (we're part of the same circle of friends), she only does this stuff with me, and doesn't even hang out with any other guys one-on-one.
So I know she just doesn't know what she wants, and she's never dated before. Also we're both adults; she is just starting college and I graduated from college last year. We're both serious Christians. I think if I just keep on what we've been doing, she'll eventually figure out what she wants. I definitely would like to date this girl...like "officially". I could use some insight.
A few days later she tells me that she considered all that previous stuff as dates, and now she really just wants to be friends. And a week after that, we hang out again and it's back to just us cuddling and going on cute dates and being just like before.
As far as I've seen (we're part of the same circle of friends), she only does this stuff with me, and doesn't even hang out with any other guys one-on-one.
So I know she just doesn't know what she wants, and she's never dated before. Also we're both adults; she is just starting college and I graduated from college last year. We're both serious Christians. I think if I just keep on what we've been doing, she'll eventually figure out what she wants. I definitely would like to date this girl...like "officially". I could use some insight.