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Stupid complaints get to discussions and yelling. An example of the discussions that happens everyday at home.
Today the child broke definitely the remote control of the decoder (we own still one of the old TV without decoder inside). The remote control has been fallen on the floor so many times that it doesn't work anymore. My father doesn't live without TV: when he is at home TV is on 24 on 24 hours. He has like an obsession for TV.
When he found the remote control destroyed he started a long discussion with yelling at my mom. He used bullying at my mom while asking where it was the other decoder (this is mine) because he wanted to changed it with own with the excuse that each decoder has own remote control.
Note decoder works, he doesn't need to throw it away.
So my mom replied that if he paid more attention to child, the remote control wouldn't be broken. In effect my dad left child to play with remore control so many times I don't remember.
I replied to my dad too saying"It doesn't worth to throw away a decoder that still works only because the remote control is broken, just raise up each time you need to change channel". The truth is that my dad doesn't want to raise up everytime from sofa; it involves too much effort.
I think that such discussions are unusuful and deleterious for the child's education (she was in the room during that discussion). My dad just had a childhood's behaviour, the same of children when they discover one of their toys is broken.
I'd like only to have a family who lives in a peaceful atmosphere. Why not?
Today the child broke definitely the remote control of the decoder (we own still one of the old TV without decoder inside). The remote control has been fallen on the floor so many times that it doesn't work anymore. My father doesn't live without TV: when he is at home TV is on 24 on 24 hours. He has like an obsession for TV.
When he found the remote control destroyed he started a long discussion with yelling at my mom. He used bullying at my mom while asking where it was the other decoder (this is mine) because he wanted to changed it with own with the excuse that each decoder has own remote control.
Note decoder works, he doesn't need to throw it away.
So my mom replied that if he paid more attention to child, the remote control wouldn't be broken. In effect my dad left child to play with remore control so many times I don't remember.
I replied to my dad too saying"It doesn't worth to throw away a decoder that still works only because the remote control is broken, just raise up each time you need to change channel". The truth is that my dad doesn't want to raise up everytime from sofa; it involves too much effort.
I think that such discussions are unusuful and deleterious for the child's education (she was in the room during that discussion). My dad just had a childhood's behaviour, the same of children when they discover one of their toys is broken.
I'd like only to have a family who lives in a peaceful atmosphere. Why not?