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I have a guy ive been friends with for 8 months now and we've gotten really close. We have said before to each other that we like each other. And things seemed to be happening between us (he would say things that gave me the impression he wanted a relationship)
But recently we discussed where we were going with this friendship/relationship and he said he wasnt sure if he wanted to take the next step cus he's afraid of losing our friendship if someting goes wrong.
Yet im confused because he says he still really likes me, and i guess you'd call it flirting cus we are always teasing each other in some way. He said he might change his mind someday and we could 'take the next step' but for now he wants to stay friends. What am i supposed to think of this? Ive gotten hurt over and over again...cus i have such strong feelings for him i can't help but keep holding on, waiting to see if and when he'll change his mind. And he'll say cute things to me every now and then like "i wanted to hug you" etc..things that to me seem obvious that he has feelings for me
I really do care about him and want him to be a part of my life. Im willing to take the risk with our friendship but he's not.And so here i am still holding on...cus in my heart i feel he's worth it. If only he'd feel the same.
But recently we discussed where we were going with this friendship/relationship and he said he wasnt sure if he wanted to take the next step cus he's afraid of losing our friendship if someting goes wrong.
Yet im confused because he says he still really likes me, and i guess you'd call it flirting cus we are always teasing each other in some way. He said he might change his mind someday and we could 'take the next step' but for now he wants to stay friends. What am i supposed to think of this? Ive gotten hurt over and over again...cus i have such strong feelings for him i can't help but keep holding on, waiting to see if and when he'll change his mind. And he'll say cute things to me every now and then like "i wanted to hug you" etc..things that to me seem obvious that he has feelings for me
I really do care about him and want him to be a part of my life. Im willing to take the risk with our friendship but he's not.And so here i am still holding on...cus in my heart i feel he's worth it. If only he'd feel the same.