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Every positive quality has a correlating negative quality.
Warm climates in the winter, tend to have HOT HOT HOT climates in the summer.
Yards with lots of pretty well groomed flowers, tend to take a lot of labor and work.
The same can be said of certain personality traits.
A strong focused person, may not be the most tender-hearted.
A sensitive, caring, more emotional person, may not be the solid rock you need to lean on.
(Yes there are a gazillion shades of nuance to the above scenarios that someone could say NU-UH too. But in general me thinks you see where I'm headed with this.)
All too often people focus on their negative (repellant) qualities, forgetting that those qualities may have a positive corresponding side.
So chin up single folks. Your repellant may be what attracts the right person.
Warm climates in the winter, tend to have HOT HOT HOT climates in the summer.
Yards with lots of pretty well groomed flowers, tend to take a lot of labor and work.
The same can be said of certain personality traits.
A strong focused person, may not be the most tender-hearted.
A sensitive, caring, more emotional person, may not be the solid rock you need to lean on.
(Yes there are a gazillion shades of nuance to the above scenarios that someone could say NU-UH too. But in general me thinks you see where I'm headed with this.)
All too often people focus on their negative (repellant) qualities, forgetting that those qualities may have a positive corresponding side.
So chin up single folks. Your repellant may be what attracts the right person.