Thanks for your impute. I am still searching on this subject. A vendor of mine at work keeps preaching Elect, Gods chosen ones, everyone else is going straight to hell. I struggle with that from an all loving God.
ForwardOne,
I think people read Romans 9 incorrectly.
10 And not only this, but when Rebecca also had conceived by one man, even by our father Isaac
11 (for the children not yet being born, nor having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works but of Him who calls),
12 it was said to her, "The older shall serve the younger1."
13 As it is written, "Jacob I have loved, but Esau I have hated1."
(Rom 9:10-13 NKJ)
I think many people when they read that assume that God chose Jacob because He loved Him and didn't choose Esau because He hated him. However, that is backwards. I submit that God didn't choose because He loved or hated either, but rather that God loved Jacob because He choose him. What many don't realize is that the statement, 'Jacob have I loved and Esau have I hated' was written hundreds of years after God choose either one. The passage comes from Malachi, the last book in the Old Testament.
NKJ Malachi 1:1 The burden1 of the word of the LORD to Israel by Malachi.
2 "I have loved you," says the LORD. "Yet you say,`In what way have You loved us?' Was not Esau Jacob's brother?" Says the LORD. "Yet Jacob I have loved;
3 But Esau I have hated, And laid waste his mountains and his heritage For the jackals of the wilderness." (Mal 1:1-3 NKJ)
In Romans 9 Paul is explaining how God is fulfilling His promise to Abraham. He writes of God choosing certain people through whom He will accomplish this, Jacob was one of them, Esau was not. But, the statement, 'Jacob have I loved and Esau have I hated', was made hundreds of years after God choose Jacob, so the loving and hating came after the choosing not before. If you read the book of Obediah (one chapter) God explains why He hate Esau and laid his mountains waste. Here is the chapter. Edom is the nation that came from Esau, Jacob and Esau represent their respective nations which we know from Paul's quote of Genesis.
23 And the LORD said to her:
"Two nations are in your womb, Two peoples shall be separated from your body; One people shall be stronger than the other, And the older shall serve the younger." (Gen 25:23 NKJ)
NKJ Obadiah 1:1 The vision of Obadiah. Thus says the Lord GOD concerning Edom (We have heard a report from the LORD, And a messenger has been sent among the nations, saying, "Arise, and let us rise up against her for battle "):
2 "Behold, I will make you small among the nations; You shall be greatly despised.
3 The pride of your heart has deceived you, You who dwell in the clefts of the rock, Whose habitation is high; You who say in your heart,`Who will bring me down to the ground?'
4 Though you ascend as high as the eagle, And though you set your nest among the stars, From there I will bring you down," says the LORD.
5 "If thieves had come to you, If robbers by night-- Oh, how you will be cut off!-- Would they not have stolen till they had enough? If grape-gatherers had come to you, Would they not have left some gleanings?
6 "Oh, how Esau shall be searched out! How his hidden treasures shall be sought after!
7 All the men in your confederacy Shall force you to the border; The men at peace with you Shall deceive you and prevail against you. Those who eat your bread shall lay a trap1 for you. No one is aware of it.
8 "Will I not in that day," says the LORD, "Even destroy the wise men from Edom, And understanding from the mountains of Esau?
9 Then your mighty men, O Teman, shall be dismayed, To the end that everyone from the mountains of Esau May be cut off by slaughter.
10 "For violence against your brother Jacob, Shame shall cover you, And you shall be cut off forever.
11 In the day that you stood on the other side-- In the day that strangers carried captive his forces, When foreigners entered his gates And cast lots for Jerusalem-- Even you were as one of them.
12 But you should not have gazed on the day of your brother In the day of his captivity1; Nor should you have rejoiced over the children of Judah In the day of their destruction; Nor should you have spoken proudly In the day of distress.
13 You should not have entered the gate of My people In the day of their calamity. Indeed, you should not have gazed on their affliction In the day of their calamity, Nor laid hands on their substance In the day of their calamity.
14 You should not have stood at the crossroads To cut off those among them who escaped; Nor should you have delivered up those among them who remained In the day of distress.
15 "For the day of the LORD upon all the nations is near; As you have done, it shall be done to you; Your reprisal shall return upon your own head.
16 For as you drank on my holy mountain, So shall all the nations drink continually; Yes, they shall drink, and swallow, And they shall be as though they had never been.
17 "But on Mount Zion there shall be deliverance, And there shall be holiness; The house of Jacob shall possess their possessions.
18 The house of Jacob shall be a fire, And the house of Joseph a flame; But the house of Esau shall be stubble; They shall kindle them and devour them, And no survivor shall remain of the house of Esau," For the LORD has spoken.
19 The South1 shall possess the mountains of Esau, And the Lowland shall possess Philistia. They shall possess the fields of Ephraim And the fields of Samaria. Benjamin shall possess Gilead.
20 And the captives of this host of the children of Israel Shall possess the land of the Canaanites As far as Zarephath. The captives of Jerusalem who are in Sepharad Shall possess the cities of the South1.
21 Then saviors1 shall come to Mount Zion To judge the mountains of Esau, And the kingdom shall be the LORD'S.
(Oba 1:1-21 NKJ)