Well, currently I do not have time to address all the points you brought up here. So I will just address what I can in the time I have. Let's start with your belief that man does not have a spirit: Well, Zechariah 12:1 says God forms the spirit of man within him. Ecclesiastes 12:7 says the spirit returns to God in who gave it. Genesis 41:8 essentially says Pharoah's spirit was troubled. In Deuteronomy 2:30, we learn that God harden's a man's spirit. In other words, do a study on the word "spirit" in the Bible and you will see that it is not in reference to God, and or a dark spirit, etc. So man has a spirit when he is born. Paul says we are to keep three things blameless until the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, the soul, the spirit, and the body (1 Thessalonians 5:23). If the Spirit is in reference to God it doesn't make any sense because we can't corrupt God.
So if man has a spirit, then one is born AGAIN spiritually into God's Kingdom. For a person's spirit was born into this world when God created it at conception, and then it must be born AGAIN so as to enter the Kingdom of God. Meaning, a person needs to be reborn spiritually by the Hoy Spirit by repenting of their sins and accepting Jesus Christ (Who is God Almighty in the flesh) as their Savior in order to be saved. This is Christianity 101, my friend.
Actually, Christianity 101 would be what was first taught, not what's taught today.
What spirit body am I talking about? 1 Corinthians 15:44 says there is a spiritual body.
37 But they were terrified and affrighted, and supposed that they had seen a spirit.
38 And he said unto them, Why are ye troubled? and why do thoughts arise in your hearts?
39 Behold my hands and my feet, that it is I myself: handle me, and see; for a spirit hath not flesh and bones, as ye see me have. (Luk 24:37-39 KJV)
Jesus states plainly that a spirit does not have flesh and bone. Man does have flesh and bone thus man is not a spirit.
Do a key word search on the word "soul", too. You will find that the Bible mentions how God has a soul, too. Granted, God's soul is uncreated and eternal.
Does God Have a Soul? | Learn The Bible
Does God Have a Soul? | Learn The Bible
This is a metaphor or a poetic piece of text that is speaking from an external perspective of man's physical state after it dies. It is not in reference to the dead in the spirit world. For the rich man who died surely knew where he was at when he went to torments (See Luke 16).
18 For the grave cannot praise thee, death can not celebrate thee: they that go down into the pit cannot hope for thy truth.
19 The living, the living, he shall praise thee, as I do this day: the father to the children shall make known thy truth. (Isa 38:18-19 KJV)
17 The dead do not praise the LORD, Nor any who go down into silence. (Psa 115:17 NKJ)
5 For the living know that they will die; But the dead know nothing, And they have no more reward, For the memory of them is forgotten. (Ecc 9:5 NKJ)
The dead know nothing, they have no memory.
There are more that can be posted, the dead are dead, they are in the grave, Hades. They remain there until their resurrection.
Regarding the parable of Lazarus and the Rich Man, the parable is not about life after death, it a parable against the Jewish leadership, in particular the priesthood. Jesus is telling them what is going to happen to the priesthood. If you look at the other parables that He gave before this you can see how He is building His argument against them. The Prodigal son, Israel is God's son, then He give the parable of the unfaithful steward. Who were God's stewards? The priesthood. They were unfaithful Jesus rebuked them quite a bit. He says, he who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, this is something that He accused them of and it is prophesied in Malachi. He says, the Law and the Prophets were until John since then the kingdom of God is preached. In that statement He tells them plainly that their time is up, the Law and the prophets were until John. That means the priesthood is done, John has come, the priesthood is done. Then He tells the story of Lazarus and the Rich Man, Notice that the rich man is a Jew, he calls Abraham father. Notice that the rich man had five brothers, Levi had five brothers. Levi was the tribe of the priests. Notice the rich man worn purple and fine linen, the priests wore it also. Notice that Lazarus is with Abraham being comforted. The name Lazarus means "God help". Jesus had already told the Jews that they would see others in the kingdom with Abrahama, Isaac, and Jacob.
11 "And I say to you that many will come from east and west, and sit down with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven.
12 "But the sons of the kingdom will be cast out into outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth." (Mat 8:11-12 NKJ)
The rich man was in Hades in the flame, yet the place of fire is Gehenna, not Hades and Jesus knew this because He was the one who said it. So why would Jesus say the rich man was in Hades, in the flame? I submit He was alluding to Deuteronomy which the Pharisees would be very familiar with. This passage is from the Song of Moses and describes how Israel would turn away from the Lord.
20 And He said:`I will hide My face from them, I will see what their end will be, For they are a perverse generation, Children in whom is no faith.
21 They have provoked Me to jealousy by what is not God; They have moved Me to anger by their foolish idols. But I will provoke them to jealousy by those who are not a nation; I will move them to anger by a foolish nation.
22 For a fire is kindled by my anger, And shall burn to the lowest hell; It shall consume the earth with her increase, And set on fire the foundations of the mountains. (Deu 32:20-22 NKJ)
The word hell in this passage is Hades. Notice that fire in Hades is God's anger. The rich man (priesthood) is suffering God's anger. Notice God said He would provoke them to anger by those who are not a nation. Paul touches on this and applies it to the Gentiles.
8 Just as it is written: "God has given them a spirit of stupor, Eyes that they should not see And ears that they should not hear, To this very day1."
9 And David says: "Let their table become a snare and a trap, A stumbling block and a recompense to them.
10 Let their eyes be darkened, so that they do not see, and bow down their back always1."
11 I say then, have they stumbled that they should fall? Certainly not! But through their fall, to provoke them to jealousy, salvation has come to the Gentiles.
12 Now if their fall is riches for the world, and their failure riches for the Gentiles, how much more their fullness! (Rom 11:8-12 NKJ)
Paul says that to provoke the Jews to Jealousy salvation has gone to the Gentiles. God said He would provoke them by those who are not a nation, the Gentiles are not a nation.
In the passage from Deuteronomy God also said that He would hide His face from them. Well, that has happened, He brought the destruction of the temple and the priesthood and has hid His face from them ever since. This is what the parable of Lazarus and the Rich Man is about. A literal understanding of the passage won't work.