Anyone Else Been Kicked out of Church?

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Dude just leave and kick the dust off your feet.
I can't leave of my own accord. Christ has to rescue me. I have been imprisoned by my ridiculous hope that the SDA church could repent. As it stands, the SDA church refuses to release me from my continual mental anguish, which has been going on for years. In their judgment, I'm not worthy to be disfellowshipped. I have committed the greatest of all possible sins. I have spoken against “the holy order.”
 
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If you go to a good solid Bible believing church, there is no need to ever get put out of it. If there is a problem you can talk to the Pastor or leader of the church. You must keep open minded because you may be the problem and not the church. Sometimes we have to change instead of expecting others to always change.
John MacArthur wrote a pretty stellar book about the abominable practices of the Charismatic churches and movement overall. While probably most of what he wrote is true, MacArthur also has beliefs that are not biblical themselves (though not as evil and ugly as the 'strange fire' beliefs of most Charismatic churches that make God look like a fool and then say they're doing it right). My dude, tell me where you have found a 'Bible-believing church', and I'll wire $5,000 into your bank account. We are a work in progress; the mistake we all make is that we each think our church or meeting or fellowship or house church is actually doing it right. Evangelicals believe they are right (therefore, most people think they are the Pharisees and the 'religious' frozen chosen); Charismatics believe they are alive ("To hell with being right," they think as they sip their Starbucks; they just want to seem 'alive' and relevant, and they are neither). Let's be imperfect and admit it honestly rather than only admitting it because I'm checking out everyone else's wife in church and committing more sins than heathens during the week and don't want anyone to 'judge' me: "Yeah, of course! We're all imperfect!" Of course we are. Societies don't care to force people, and all people naturally expect too much of everyone else (you have to research it; it's true); only Jesus' yoke (standard) on people is easy, and only His burden (expectation) on everyone is light.
 
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Do we need a visible church group to share with? Yes, we do.

But that will always run into complications for us which test our faith in God.

That is why our faith is not supposed to be in the visible gathering but in the invisible (spiritual) church of the firstborn above: Read Hebrews 12:14-29 and compare;

Hebrews 11:1 "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen."

2 Corinthians 4:18 "While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal."

Romans 8:24 "For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for?"

1 Corinthians 2:9 "But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him."

2 Corinthians 5:7 (For we walk by faith, not by sight: )

The flesh of man has since Adam's fall into sin been controlled largely of what Paul speaks of as the carnal mind. You see that flesh does not think for itself to be able to choose to do this or that. The flesh is a sensual organism as is necessary so that it can communicate it's needs for survival to man's mind.

Sin only indirectly affects our flesh body for the flesh would have no power to do on it's own but for a man's mind choosing it for the flesh body. A man's mind is meant of God to control and regulate the needs of a man's fleshly body so that the body does not develop undesirable addictions and begin to sense it needs drugs or excesses of food, perverted sexual pleasures, and on an on to make it feel good.

When the mind chooses to allow a man to smoke cigarettes it is not long before a man's body becomes addicted to cigarettes and then, when the man tries to go without cigarettes, the body senses the withdrawal from the ill-formed habit and communicates that feeling to the same spiritually weak mind that allowed picking up cigarettes in the first place. What would we expect that same carnal (spiritually weak) mind to do but what it did?

The carnal spiritually weak mind is weak by spirit because when a man chooses to sin he separates his mind away from God and God's instructions to his mind. Thus a man's mind no longer really knows what to do in these situations and so simply does what it feels best to the body and that to the carnal mind is whatever comforts the body so as to quiet it's cravings for sensual needs. Man's mind has been demoted by sin (sin, meaning, missing the mark of God's commanded standards) to only matters of what feels best to the principal thing a man's mind now only listens to, his fleshly body. Thus the reason it is called a carnal mind.

That, however, creates the illusion to the carnal mind that it is in control. Why and how? Because the carnal mind is on a temporal basis able to satisfy the cry from the body for the satisfaction of it's corrupted sensations.

Christ died to take the sins of the world to himself. Some say he did that all on the cross but that falls short of the full truth. Christ's visible body of believers yet walking this earth bring many with carnal minds into that body every day. And we see the evidence of it in many ways; by bickering and bigotries and a preference toward feel good doctrines rather than the pure truth of God. Since man's flesh has been poorly governed of man's sin weakened mind since Adam's choice to sin, God's pure ways do not feel satisfying to man's now corrupted cravings of the flesh.

It is now next to impossible to have a church gathering in the visible realm apart from yielding to the temptation to scratch peoples ears with twists of blemished doctrines that will somewhat keep people willing to attend. Even then that is why there remains such a great turn over in attendance.

This is a good reason to re-examine all that one believes, praying constantly for God to open our eyes to his truth and not giving up seeking to know an to grow in that truth once God mercifully does reveal it to us.

The carnal mind is unafraid to force itself to the front and center stage in it's effort to satisfy the corrupted flesh. Thus much false doctrine has been formulate over the last two millenniums. But when we are willing to completely empty ourselves and approach God with open minds hungry to learn what we did wrong, God is willing to teach us.

Do not ever doubt God's love because of what the carnal mind and flesh of man does. Satan would rejoice to see you give up to despair by reason of the trouble he began for us there in the garden of Eden.
I say amen.
 
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Shubee, I checked out the thread you linked. I didn't post any comments there, but I do want to say this: God is a Community Himself and encourages community. He works relationally, and you rarely see Him promoting a one-man ministry (except in Jesus Christ). I don't myself think it's a good idea to pursue ministry alone or to minister alone; Jesus sent disciples out two by two at the least, because there is safety in that. I think for many people who minister, it's smart to return to the original definition of 'minister' (verb) and see what it really means before proceeding any further. To 'minister' has a double responsibility that should naturally give someone pause before they endeavor to take on ministry: ministering is both a responsibility to God (which means you forfeit your life: as Paul said, "If I was still trying to please (live for) people, I would not be a minister of Christ"-- Gal. 1:10) and is a responsibility to people (which means you have less time in the day for yourself). Those are the practical facts of real ministry, not the stars and stripes version. If you can find out what God wants you to do regarding ministry and the SDA church (not what others or you think you should do) and then do it, then you are doing the perfectly right thing and will be kept safe as a result:

"Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine and does them, I will liken to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock. But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall" (Mt. 7:24-27).
 
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"for it is written, Thou shalt not speak evil of the ruler of thy people."
 
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"for it is written, Thou shalt not speak evil of the ruler of thy people."
That's one of the Bible passages that needs to be scrutinized or one of the doctrinal beliefs that needs to be qualified. It is similar to the command to be subject to all governing authority in Rom. 13: "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, because there is no authority except that which God has established." That needs to be given context too.

Ex. 22:28 says, "You shall not revile God, nor curse a ruler of your people." Paul borrows from there and says, "It is written, 'You shall not speak evil of a ruler of your people'" (Acts 23:5). 'To speak evil of' here would be better understood if it was translated as 'to speak evilly of' or 'to speak against' (as in 'to oppose, resist, hate, fight against'). To speak up of evil or sin in a ruler is not wrong; but to speak against a ruler with the intention or effect of embittering others against him is wrong and is 'speaking evil [against] a ruler of your people'.

As for Paul, he actually was innocent of the charge of 'speaking evil against a ruler' of the people. For one, Paul was 100% correct on what he said about Ananias (he added nothing personal; Jesus had said much more on the subject before Paul ever did), so he didn't need to repent. Secondly, Paul knew he was speaking to 'rulers of the people' (though not the high priest); they were the well-known Sanhedrin. Since he knew he was speaking to rulers, why would he still 'speak evil' of them? The third point answers: Paul wasn't guilty of speaking evil or evilly of any of them. He seems to admit guilt and to apologize, but you will see (below) that he didn't apologize at all because he hadn't broken the law or spoken evil of them. In quoting that OT passage, what Paul was doing was speaking their language (the Pharisees and Sadducees majored on keeping the Law), bringing peace to the situation and basically saying, "Like you all, I also am a Law-keeper." The summary of my reply to your comment is that while it is wrong to 'speak evilly of' (speak against) a ruler, it isn't wrong to 'speak up of evil' (expose sin) in a ruler. Hopefully, what I've shared here will give clarity and context as to Paul's motives and what he was really saying and doing in the story as seen below:

Paul, looking earnestly at the council, said, "Men and brethren, I have lived in all good conscience before God until this day." And the high priest Ananias commanded those who stood by him to strike him on the mouth. Then Paul said to him, "God will strike you, you whitewashed wall! For you sit to judge me according to the law, and do you command me to be struck contrary to the law?" And those who stood by said, "Do you revile God's high priest?" Then Paul said, "I did not know, brethren, that he was the high priest, for it is written: 'You shall not speak evil of a ruler of your people.'" But when Paul perceived that one part <of the Sanhedrin> were Sadducees and the other Pharisees, he cried out in the council, "Men and brethren, I am a Pharisee, the son of a Pharisee; concerning the hope and resurrection of the dead I am being judged!" And when he had said this, a dissension arose between the Pharisees and the Sadducees; and the assembly was divided. For Sadducees say that there is no resurrection-- and no angel or spirit; but Pharisees confess both. (Acts 23:1-8.)
 
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Socrates was a pagan pilosopher. and his quote is error...

The greates way to live in honor in this world is according to the word of God.
Socrates was wrong.
 
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Socrates was a pagan pilosopher. and his quote is error...

The greates way to live in honor in this world is according to the word of God.
Socrates was wrong.
Yes, Socrates was a pagan philosopher, but his quote isn't totally wrong: "The greatest way to live with honor in this world is to be what we pretend to be." If you don't think a Christian should quote a pagan philosopher, then you are claiming to be on the same level as Jesus or higher. I think I can safely say that Jesus is the only Person who ever walked this earth for whom it might be improper to quote a pagan (though I believe He would lose nothing to do so); every other Christian is free to do so if done through a sanctified mind and motive. The Bible doesn't spell out everything, but it spells out just enough. Check it out:

Addressing the Athenian pagan philosophers in order to turn them from their paganism, Paul quoted one of their own pagan philosophers to them within his message to them: "[God] has made [it] so that [everyone] should seek the Lord... though He is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and have our being, as also some of your own poets have said, 'For we are His offspring.' Therefore... we are the offspring of God" (Acts 17:26-29). Paul both quoted a pagan philosopher and acknowledged that the philosopher was right by going on to say, "Therefore... we are the offspring of God." In Christ, not everyone is a child of God; but in the unrenewed or pagan or heathen mind, it is true that everyone is the offspring of God. As a minister, you can tell Christians, "Not everyone is a child of God"; and to unbelievers you can say, "We all are God's children", and you would be right in both cases, because the rules apply differently depending on the audience or person you address.