Are We Practicing Enough Humility as Christians?

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Prov910

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Are we practicing enough humility?

This sounds like a contest.

I love contests, I'm very competitive.

I intend to beat everyone down with my superior humility skills.

Bam.
 
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Are we practicing enough humility?

This sounds like a contest.

I love contests, I'm very competitive.

I intend to beat everyone down with my superior humility skills.

Bam.
It is so hard to be humble when you know you are! :)
 

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We must consider this over considering in human reasoning humility or humiliation - "Are we properly aligned with God thru Jesus Christ?; number one. And, number two; "Are we faithful to Him to such a point that, as He leads us, and loves us His way, are we immediately obeying Him?" For those of us in Christ now live spiritually and not in the flesh at all! Is Satan producing an idea in us mindfully that we are serving God's doctrines morally in the flesh which is the same thing? And that God can do things in us, even many things, but not all things?
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Humiliation and humility are two separate things.

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I pray we all support each other in prayer as we guard our hearts. [FONT=&quot]I am humbled by my Lord and Savior.[/FONT] But it is there I am also a New Creation empowered in Himself! To Him be the glory!! That is a fact Jack! Our Humility (or lack of self-awareness) is factual in Christ. Not something to obtain, but rather something He gives us in our character.
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[/FONT][FONT=&quot]And I again disagree. Humility is a virtue to be sought. Yes, we can obtain it through the power of the Holy Spirit and through our faith and obedience to Him.[/FONT]
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All truth (or reality) comes from the Holy Spirit as Children of God whom are now living spiritually. Thus, humility is just a revelation of facts.

Fact number one: We must be dead to the right to ourselves in order to be productive in righteousness; and two: We are enlivened and empowered in Christ whom is far and above anything that we could hope to produce in this human structure and mind, apart from God thru Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit...we are nothing!

Thus, humility is not an ideal; it is the unconscious result of the life being rightly related to God and centered in Him. When we say, "I think humility is....etc," my spirit is immediately burdened, for there is nothing more awful than conscious humility; it is the most Satanic type of pride. To consciously serve is to be worse than the Pharisee who is eaten up with conceit.

What did The Lord of heaven and earth say? "Learn of Me; for I am meek and lowly of heart." (Matthew 11:29). If Jesus Christ cannot produce a meekness and lowliness of heart like His own, Christianity is nonsense from beginning to end, and His teaching had better be blotted out. But my testimony is that I have received His revelation spiritually and mindfully in way of righteousness. Thus, now I am convinced that any self-awareness is of no value in the Kingdom of God; it is, in fact, enmity towards God. Thus, my empowerment in Christ is solely His to claim and as a result, humility is contoured and constructed into my character rightly so in relationship to Spiritual truth.. This is not me then saying, "I think humility is.." It is me saying, "I know my Father whom is in Heaven and is the author of all wisdom and I am not, yet it is He who is my life now in Christ Jesus! Therefore I am humble for this is reality in righteousness (a properly aligned relationship with God)..to both the depravity of my sinful nature, and to the glory of God's miraculous grace and power found in me.

We who have experienced "CC" for awhile have seen many quarrels amongst ourselves, I even would venture a guess that some would argue that point, in that we are discussing deliberately with ordained judgements, but suffice it to say - the point of humility in our character requires us to ask the question - What causes fights and quarrels among us? Don't they come from our desires that battle within us? We want something but don't get it. We go as far as to kill and covet, yet we cannot have what we want. We quarrel and fight! We do not have because we do not ask God. When we ask, we do not receive, because we ask with wrong motives that we may spend what we get on our pleasures.

As I look into that section of James I also look further in relationship to humility playing a fundamental role in our character, being properly aligned to God, when James states, "Now listen, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money." Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that." As it is you boast and brag! All such boasting is evil. Anyone, then, who (while being properly aligned in a relationship with God in Christ; being humble (factual revelation), where He loves us first and asks of us to be His Ambassadorship as Lord and co-worker In Chirst) who knows the good he ought to do (spiritual awareness and not self-awareness) and doesn't do it sins.

To add: The sphere of humiliation (that's right humiliation and not simply humility) is always the place of more satisfaction to Jesus Christ, and it is in our power to refuse to be humiliated, to say, "No, thank you, I much prefer to be on the mountaintop with God." Do I believe that God engineers my circumstances, that it is He who brings me each day into contact with the people I meet?

Am I faithful enough to Him to know that all I meet with in the ordinary deliberations of every day by chance or haphazard is absolutely under His dominance and rule? Do I face the humiliation which sometimes comes in my contact with people with perfect knowledge that God is working out His own will?

We must consider this over considering in human reasoning humility or humiliation - "Are we properly aligned with God thru Jesus Christ?; number one. And, number two; "Are we faithful to Him to such a point that, as He leads us, and loves us His way, are we immediately obeying Him?" For those of us in Christ now live spiritually and not in the flesh at all! Is Satan producing an idea in us mindfully that we are serving God's doctrines morally in the flesh which is the same thing? And that God can do things in us, even many things, but not all things?

I pray we all support each other in prayer as we guard our hearts. I am humbled by my Lord and Savior. But it is there I am also a New Creation empowered in Himself! To Him be the glory!! That is a fact Jack! Our Humility (or lack of self-awareness) is factual in Christ. Not something to obtain, but rather something He gives us in our character.
I inadvertently took some of this out of context with my last post.
 

Grandpa

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I would be practicing perfect humility if some of you weren't so irritating.

I think if you work on being less irritating (you know who you are) I can be much more humble.
 
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as a mere human-being, I can only 'dream' of how Such a One could humble/suffer Himself
to be the 'Door-Matt' for each and every one of us all!...
 
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I would be practicing perfect humility if some of you weren't so irritating.

I think if you work on being less irritating (you know who you are) I can be much more humble.
Lol!!!!!!! :D
 
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"Humility is something a person loses as soon as it is discovered they have it."
 
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oh my, where does taking responsibility for your own selves come into play,
after 'grade school', - when and 'if', do some ever 'grow-up' and learn how to take
'responsibility' for their very own actions, instead of 'blaming others'???
 
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Well we got humble folks like you to keep it balanced.
I rest my case.
Of course I am also reflecting countless users over the years. Many if which left the site in a week or less, sometimes a day, due to the behavior in the BDF. Or many that refuse to come in here at all. And when they do they regret it.
But what do I know. That's only 6 years of experience talking, while you have had less than a year. But your response does serve to prove my point. You, not knowing me, feel inclined to make a dig aimed specifically at me. You are definitely BDF material. I'll just take dozens of others complaints and ignore them to pacify your arrogance. Mmk?
 

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Yes, I like to hold the door open for people and I prefer others to have the best pieces of chicken.
 

Grandpa

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Yes, I like to hold the door open for people and I prefer others to have the best pieces of chicken.
I think you are right.

I think you WILL crush all of our humility like a paper cup.

I don't even understand how you can give away the best pieces of chicken.
My mind can't comprehend it...
 

EarnestQ

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I am PROUD to say I am the humblest person I know. LOL
 
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I sure do not. I need to be more humble and nice to people.

I am a backwoods redneck, so being "rude" comes naturally.
 

1ofthem

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I sure do not. I need to be more humble and nice to people.

I am a backwoods redneck, so being "rude" comes naturally.
Yeah, that's my whole problem. I'm a backwoods redneck and we think cut down fights and sarcasm are fun. Round here we just talk bluntly and that usually just means we like you and are sometimes just joking around, but the rest of the world don't see it that way...so a lot of times I come off as being rude when really I'm not trying to be...So I'm trying to learn to leave my redneck side behind but it is just so hard...lol:p
 
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Colossians 3:12

12 dPut on then, as eGod’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, fcompassionate hearts, gkindness, hhumility, meekness, and patience,

Do we sometimes confuse humility with "being a door mat?" Are we Christians showing enough humility?
I don't need to practice it. I've got it down perfectly!


(LOL just joking, although I do get a kick on how lessons in humility are always pointed to everyone else.)
 

MarcR

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Colossians 3:12




12 dPut on then, as eGod’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, fcompassionate hearts, gkindness, hhumility, meekness, and patience,

Do we sometimes confuse humility with "being a door mat?" Are we Christians showing enough humility?

I find it interesting that we are told that all of these qualities or descriptors are to be put on, as a garment.

Similarly we are told Gal 3:27
27 For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
KJV

This suggests that the garment, like Jesus righteousness, is more what Jesus does in and through us than a product of our own efforts.
 
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Funnily enough I’ve been thinking quite a lot about humility.

These are my musings about Christian humility. I’m not saying I’ve got
it right, but maybe I’m on the right path. Does that make me humble or not! :p

Humility is proactive it does not mean to sit back and do nothing, that’s passive
which is completely different. It needs putting on, its one of the fruits of the spirit.

It doesn’t mean to have a low opinion of yourself (despite what the dictionary says).

It doesn’t mean to be a dogs body and let people walk all over you.

It doesn't mean to underestimate yourself or hide your talents under a basket.

It means to acknowledge God and walk in His ways (by doing that we are
acknowledging His way is better than ours).

It means recognising that the people we interact with are important
to God as well as us.

It means being willing to listen (I’ve heard of it out as engaging brain before
emptying drain! :D)

It means acknowledging we don’t know everything and don’t always have
the answer.

It means getting out of the way so God can work on our behalf, instead
of charging in because our way is best regardless.

It means putting the interests of others first instead of thinking of number one
all the time and being available to the King of Kings to do His work (servant not slave
by the way).

It means recognising that we can’t do everything and be everyone to every person
and being humble enough to acknowledge we get tired, need a break, that the whole
world won’t collapse without us in charge all the time.

It means to recognise we have weaknesses, but in Christ we are strong when we are
weak. For when we really say Lord we can’t do this in our own strength, that is when
God can step in.

It means to recognise our own worth and value and who we are in Christ, because when
standing firm on the rock its the safest, securest place to be. There is no need for pretense
defensiveness, or sarcasm when we know who we are in Christ.

It means to use our gifts and talents in an appropriate way.

Its means learning to say sorry and say we got that wrong.

It means accepting help when it is offered. (That can be incredibly humbly cant it,
to admit when we need help).

It means to be teachable.


Im sure there are lots of other things too.

It means me acknowledging that I’m still working on point one and that
the reality is that life is an entire lesson in humility!