Show me a scripture text for that please that baptism is not essential for salvation thank you
I would start with the baptism of fire that JTB said Jesus would bring.
He didn't physically immerse people in real flames, and we don't do that today. Hopefully.
I must naturally assume the same holds true for water.
I got dunked years ago and had no clue what it all really meant. I'm sure many have the same experience.
But I think eventually we can figure it out by studying and having experienced the physical act of baptism.
I personally would indeed recommend that a person who is serious about being a believer, be physically baptized in real water.
To me, thus far, it means this -
Immersion in emotional turbulence, particularly as if to say to God "Hey, I think I know how you feel now when the world rejects you."
See, that's a state of heart that I can relate to, which causes me to want to stop sinning. It hurts God's feelings when He sees me sin.
There's a lot of tear imagery associated with water both in the bible and secular jargon.
"and the Spirit of Elohim affected the face of the waters"
"voice like the sound of many waters" (Jesus wept)
"cry me a river"
"a great flood" that was a result of God "turning away" from the fact that He made mankind (sounds like sad remorse to me rather than angry vengeance)
and so on.
And physical or not, it's a baptism of turning away from sin, for the gradual disappearance of it, which is different than salvation. Because if I suddenly were to find myself without sin, I would not consider myself saved.
For me, seeing other people's afflictions eased is my salvation.
I've been immersed in a lot of things (including physical water, the wilderness, and a fiery feeling that tells me I'm disobedient) and saved from a lot of things, but I ain't
fixed yet.
I'll say that jumping through a physical hoop and forgetting about it would have yielded me nothing, but trying to understand what that physical act means in my heart goes a lot farther. Even if I get some of it wrong, I'm still better off than just having a baptism certificate in my bible or framed on the wall.
And OP, while the garden hose suggestion is a helpful and loving gesture, if I were you I'd hold my breath.
Because when you do that, you get the chance to have faith that when you come up out of the water, God will breath the breath of life right back into you the way He does every 7 seconds or so
When you think of baptism, think of all the little children that are learning to swim, how some of them are scared to hold their breath and go under water.And once they get it over with, they really are
a new creature. From one extreme of fear, to another excited extreme of "Look mommy! I can do it!"
They go
immediately from being scared to trying to comfort the other children on how easy it was.
Feel the tears of God and others, good ones and sad ones, and it makes one want to do no harm.