Benefits of Speaking, Praying, and Singing in Tongues

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joaniemarie

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Hm, why then God is giving gifts without asking the believer wether he want it ore not? I got a gift without asking for. Why special for the gift of tongues we find different sayings? You have to long for. You have to pray for. You have to learn how to use. You will receive if you have the baptism with the Holy Spirit and meant an different experience then our time when we are saved. We can go to others which teach us how to get the gift of speaking in tongues. No other gift is mentioned to make a different between believers then the gift of speaking in tongues. I ask me why?
Why it is a different to all the other gifts?

The many verses have been given on both sides of this topic and still each person will hold to what they believe because it's where we are in our understanding and our faith. The evidences are all over the world as well as all over these forums. Different Christians in different places effected by different truth at different times. I say it is ridiculous and also foolish when fighting goes on about these differences. Christians who believe differently than other Christians are just 'that' Christians who believe differently. We are all fallible people and not all are the same in their fallibility ., But we are not each other's enemies.

I believe faith grows sort of like building blocks over the years., faith upon faith. How can a believer be angry at another believer who has a different block at a different time on their faith in Christ Who IS the Rock and foundation of their faith? When I find myself getting annoyed or feeling antsy about answering another believer in church who doesn't have the same blocks of understanding and teachings that I have, I must stop words from literally pouring out of my mouth.

They are simply other believers who Jesus saved just like me. They also have lived life and had experiences with Jesus too. My words however right and Biblical they are will not cause the room to all of the sudden "see the light" He loves and is invested in them just like me. When I get angry or annoyed and feel compelled by my anger or that ever familiar self righteousness rising (and not the Holy Spirit) to make my voice heard in a Bible discussion at church., I stop and re-evaluate.

Seriously, how can anyone of us really be mature in the faith if we must argue our side all the time? The Holy Spirit is more than able to teach others just as He has taught us over the years. It's not our words of wisdom or our arguing over such issues as tongues for instance that will cause faith to grow and truth to be seen.

I understand the pros and cons of the argument as I've been on both sides of it. What changed me was a Humpty Dumpty experience where all the earthly kings horses and all the earthly kings men., couldn't put my life back together again. Only the Holy Spirit could sort through such damaged emotions and a damaged life.

He never leaves us because He loves us and He is invested in us and our growing. The Holy Spirit keeps teaching us what to keep and what to leave all through the years it continually goes on. I had to unlearn things and relearn things. That is ongoing for all of us.

So for all the verses we may have that we can show each other as to why we believe what we believe none of it can be instilled in another persons heart unless it's the Holy Spirit teaching as we are ready to hear. Just the other day I was in a Bible study at church. Learning this stuff is a challenge to me and takes lesson upon lesson for me to remember yet again and again. What is more important., a meek and quiet spirit that has it's security in what Jesus is doing in their life? Or someone who must always speak her mind and disagree with a bunch of other Christian people?

 

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The many verses have been given on both sides of this topic and still each person will hold to what they believe because it's where we are in our understanding and our faith. The evidences are all over the world as well as all over these forums. Different Christians in different places effected by different truth at different times. I say it is ridiculous and also foolish when fighting goes on about these differences. Christians who believe differently than other Christians are just 'that' Christians who believe differently. We are all fallible people and not all are the same in their fallibility ., But we are not each other's enemies.

I believe faith grows sort of like building blocks over the years., faith upon faith. How can a believer be angry at another believer who has a different block at a different time on their faith in Christ Who IS the Rock and foundation of their faith? When I find myself getting annoyed or feeling antsy about answering another believer in church who doesn't have the same blocks of understanding and teachings that I have, I must stop words from literally pouring out of my mouth.

They are simply other believers who Jesus saved just like me. They also have lived life and had experiences with Jesus too. My words however right and Biblical they are will not cause the room to all of the sudden "see the light" He loves and is invested in them just like me. When I get angry or annoyed and feel compelled by my anger or that ever familiar self righteousness rising (and not the Holy Spirit) to make my voice heard in a Bible discussion at church., I stop and re-evaluate.

Seriously, how can anyone of us really be mature in the faith if we must argue our side all the time? The Holy Spirit is more than able to teach others just as He has taught us over the years. It's not our words of wisdom or our arguing over such issues as tongues for instance that will cause faith to grow and truth to be seen.

I understand the pros and cons of the argument as I've been on both sides of it. What changed me was a Humpty Dumpty experience where all the earthly kings horses and all the earthly kings men., couldn't put my life back together again. Only the Holy Spirit could sort through such damaged emotions and a damaged life.

He never leaves us because He loves us and He is invested in us and our growing. The Holy Spirit keeps teaching us what to keep and what to leave all through the years it continually goes on. I had to unlearn things and relearn things. That is ongoing for all of us.

So for all the verses we may have that we can show each other as to why we believe what we believe none of it can be instilled in another persons heart unless it's the Holy Spirit teaching as we are ready to hear. Just the other day I was in a Bible study at church. Learning this stuff is a challenge to me and takes lesson upon lesson for me to remember yet again and again. What is more important., a meek and quiet spirit that has it's security in what Jesus is doing in their life? Or someone who must always speak her mind and disagree with a bunch of other Christian people?

Not really an answer for my question. Why I have the impressions that Pentecostals ore charismatics think: what you dont have the gift of speaking in tongues? Then you lack something important.
Of course we have different way of life. Different expieriences with the Lord. Different call. Different task. And different great of faith. But we have all the same word of God. And we all have to measure our expieriences with the word of God. Otherwise our expieriences become more important then the word of God!
Paul said clear that not all have the gift of speaking in tongues! But always I get to hear. You can have it if you want. You have it not because you are not open for it!
Paul is giving prophecie much more importants then speaking in tongues. But among pentecostals and charismatics speaking in tongues is the gift every body must have. Love is the greatest gift! This gift we all should have. Jesus said that christians should love each other! This should be the sign for others that we are christians.
Instead of this, my Impression is, that only who speakes in tongues is well blessed and a real Christian.
That has nothing to do to see in pentecostals ore charismatics an enemy! I only can not believe their doctrine!
 

stonesoffire

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Where does scripture say fear and unbelief prohibit God from bestowing the gift of tongues?
If one is afraid of it nor believes it's a gift from God, they will not want it. Do you want it?
 

shrume

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My questions are:

Did you know that there is a supernatural tongue that has been in the world that is just vain & profane babbling before Pentecost had come with God's gift of tongues to speak unto the people? Bible does reference one in Isaiah 8:19
Whether that is supernatural or not, it has nothing to do with speaking in tongues. Speaking in tongues is not "peeping", "chirping", or "muttering". It is a language of men or of angels (1 Cor 13:1).

If so, if a sinner was called out from that occult practice and was born again of the Spirit, how can he prove that he has repented of that former lifestyle if he still spoke in that same kind of tongue?
He would not be "speaking that same kind of tongue".

How can any one in the assembly be the big brother watching over him when he could be unrepentant in the tongue & familiar spirit he communes by?
Why does nnyone need to watch over him?

Or that he had slipped back into practice again for whatever the reason?
What are you worried about? Don't you believe that God will give people what they ask for?

Luke 11:
10) For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
11) If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
12) Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion?
13) If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?

And let's say that he is repentant, but picked up that same vain & profane babbling by receiving what other christians claims that was the Holy Spirit that came over him later on after some time when he was saved, bringing that tongue. How can he go out, wishing to evangelize his former sinners in the occult to repent and be saved if he still does the same kind of tongue? How could they be convinced that he is really a christian and that he is sincere when it looks like he is still opening himself up to receive spirits after he was saved?
The holy spirit does not "come over" people when they speak in tongues. People (Christians) speak in tongues of their own free will. So many Christians are waiting for God to "possess" them and MAKE them speak in tongues. That does not happen. People speak in tongues because they understand what it is, that they have the ability to do so (by the gift of holy spirit that dwells in them), and they choose to do it.

1 Thessalonians 5:[SUP]21 [/SUP]Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.[SUP] 22 [/SUP]Abstain from all appearance of evil.[SUP]23 [/SUP]And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.[SUP] 24 [/SUP]Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it.[SUP]25 [/SUP]Brethren, pray for us.

If we are to prove all things and abstain from all appearances of evil by going before that throne of grace for help from Jesus Christ, how can we do that if we believe that God's gift of tongues can be turned around for the Holy Spirit to use as a means for His personal prayer, and yet John 16:13 says the Holy Spirit cannot use God's gift of tongues in that way at all because He cannot speak for Himself, but speaks what He hears as in being the Spirit of Christ?
Again, John 16:13 has nothing to do with speaking in tongues. Speaking in tongues was not possible before the day of Pentecost. "Praying in the spirit" is speaking in tongues (1 Cor 14"14-15; Eph 6:18; Jude 1:20).

So when Paul had given the bottom line on what tongues are for...which is of other men's lips to speak unto the people....
That is NOT the "bottom line" on what tongues are for. Tongues is for YOUR edification, and when interpreted, it's for the edification of the body of Christ.

1 Corinthians 14:20-22 ..
That is not saying that the primary purpose for tongues is as a sign to unbelievers.

and it is not used as a sign towards believers about anything
Right. Instructed believers know what tongues is, and what it is for.

let alone receiving the Holy Spirit separate from salvation with a sign of tongue
We have already discussed this. Tongues is not a separate outpouring of holy spirit. There is only one time a person receives the gift of holy spirit, and that is when he hears and believes the gospel (Eph 1:13). That is when he becomes saved.

how can you claim that your tongue is distinct and different from the kind of tongues those that have gained that tongue by the claim of that apostasy, for surely, God would not give His gift of tongues to support a lie?
Of course tongues is not a lie, nor does tongues support a lie. It is one of the nine manifestations of the singular gift of holy spirit that a person receives when he believes on the Lord Jesus Christ. Tongues is not a "gift". It is a manifestation of the gift of holy spirit. EVERY Christian has the inherent ability to speak in tongues.

Mayhap, sharing how you got your gift of tongues from those that have claimed otherwise, may help, but somehow, I would think a problem arises when they use tongues without interpretation the same way as you do, thus they can lord how they got that tongue by receiving what they believe was the Holy Spirit separate from salvation over you to prevent you from saying that how they got that tongue was not of Him, and yet that is how they got that tongue.
That's a really long sentence... :)

Again, every single Christian (person born again of holy spirit) has the ability to manifest that spirit in nine different ways (there are nine different manifestations), one of which is speaking in tongues.

And a Christian should never "lord it over" other Christians that they speak in tongues while other Christians don't. Instead, they should help other Christians UNDERSTAND what speaking in tongues is, that it is NOT a "special gift" separate from the gift of holy spirit, and help them to manifest.

Then they can start promoting other signs for receiving the Holy Spirit again like being "slain in the Spirit" or being "drunk in the Spirit" or the "holy laughter" movement, and so how can you stop them?
"Drunk in the spirit" and "holy laughter" are not in the Bible, and not the proper understanding of manifesting the gift of holy spirit. People who do and teach those things are wrong. God wants all things to be done decently and in order.

Maybe you can see why I am so adamant that God's gift of tongues is of other men's lips to speak unto the people and the Holy Spirit cannot use God's gift of tongues as a means for a prayer language.
You may be adamant, but you are wrong.

Tongue speakers are reading 1 Corinthians 12-13-14 chapters wrongly when Paul confined the gift of tongue as not a stand alone gift
Tongues is not a "gift" at all. It is a manifestation of the gift of holy spirit. God would like every Christian to speak in tongues (1 Cor 14:5). But if a person wants to speak in tongues out loud in the church, he must interpret.

that it has to come with interpretation for that tongue to even be fruitful to the tongue speaker or else he is not truly edified.
No, tongues do not have to be interpreted to be beneficial to the person speaking in tongues. That person is speaking divine secrets (1 Cor 14:2), he is praising God (Acts 2:11; Acts 10:46), he is giving thanks well (1 Cor 14:17), he is building himself up (1 Cor 14:4; Jude 1:20).

Tongue speakers has to take every verses in those chapter to see the actual message of what God's gift of tongues were for.
I apologize for saying so, but you do not understand tongues, or what they are for.
 

stonesoffire

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Stones who told you that you are now a spirit beeing? This means you dont need food. You dont will be sick. You will have no physical pain.
Well I am still a flesh ly beeing with pain in my back if I want take something from the grohne. Also I need food! Yes I know there is a new creature in me, but what I will be in Future is not revealed yet!
So the Spirit comunicate with me in a normal language. which I can understand. I cant find in the Bible that we have to communicate with the Holy Spirit in an special language which we do not understand. And why the Holy Spirit should talk to us in a language which we dont understand?
I believe that the word of God is true. I have no fear to get any gift. And the gift he gave me, he gave me when I turned to christ. No special expierience!I even I not reconzed it when I received it. It was there!
I never felt that I am missing something in my relationship with the Father, except sometimes my obidient and love when I was sinning . He is telling me what is right and wrong. And I trust His Word! I know I can come to him to any time and he Cares for me. What speaking in tongues could make the relationship better?
I and you were a flesh being until the new birth. My soul was primary in life for it was the 5 senses of human nature that I lived in this world by. However, a spiritual man or woman lives by the Spirit. We are led by the Spirit.

Soulish men and women are just that. Human nature is primary.

~Rom 8:2  For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. 


Rom 8:3  For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
 

Rom 8:4  That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
 

Rom 8:5  For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
 

Rom 8:6  For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. 


Rom 8:7  Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
 

Rom 8:8  So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
 

Rom 8:9  But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his. 

The giftings of Holy Spirit are the "tools" of Holy Spirit that we witness to others through. I've had some ask me questions, and I not know the answers, but Holy Spirit will speak through me in the gift of knowledge. Or see into one's heart to know what is needed to minister.

The giftings of God are very important. And tongues most important for the individual. We are speaking to God...and He edifies us through this.

Why not want everything that Jesus has left for us to minister through?

They aren't spooky...and a spiritual person is just one that Spirit is primary in the life. Not soul.

Our soul is in the process of being saved. Another reason why we need the gift of tongues.


 
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Okay, okay I will answer myself with scripture. ;)

Paul makes it very clear

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IfI speakin thetonguesof menandof angels,buthavenotlove,I amonly a ringinggongora clangingcymbal.
2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have absolute faith so as to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.…
Berean Study Bible

So....
If I speak in the tongues (being able to speak in a different earthly language ) of men and of language of angels (Paul now going now to the superlative, hyperbole) but I do not have love I am a clanging cymbal.

When I am speaking about the gospel it is usually in my native tongue so I do not need the gift of tongues, now should I travel to some foreign land with a different tongue, I may have to beseech God so that I can share the gospel so the person will understand, but for now I rather follow Paul's directive and focus on love.




If one is afraid of it nor believes it's a gift from God, they will not want it. Do you want it?
 

stonesoffire

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Okay, okay I will answer myself with scripture. ;)

Paul makes it very clear

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IfI speakin thetonguesof menandof angels,buthavenotlove,I amonly a ringinggongora clangingcymbal.
2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have absolute faith so as to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.…
Berean Study Bible

So....
If I speak in the tongues (being able to speak in a different earthly language ) of men and of language of angels (Paul now going now to the superlative, hyperbole) but I do not have love I am a clanging cymbal.

When I am speaking about the gospel it is usually in my native tongue so I do not need the gift of tongues, now should I travel to some foreign land with a different tongue, I may have to beseech God so that I can share the gospel so the person will understand, but for now I rather follow Paul's directive and focus on love.
But, he does not say not to desire the gifts.

Even love is given by God.

You can have more. Also, the giftings and love is not the stopping point in life in the Spirit. But, I don't think there are many here that could stand to hear it.
 
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Of course, the problem is how one group defines tongues (intelligible earthly language) and how the other group defines tongues (unintelligible private prayer language of angels).

And for that we really on scripture only, not experience.



But, he does not say not to desire the gifts.

Even love is given by God.
 

stonesoffire

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Of course, the problem is how one group defines tongues (intelligible earthly language) and how the other group defines tongues (unintelligible private prayer language of angels).

And for that we really on scripture only, not experience.
I knew nothing about tongues when I was baptized by Holy Spirit. And I prophesied before I spoke in another language. I didn't know what had happened was prophecy.

What I received first was worship. As I was worshipping the Lord, which was pretty much a constant thing, words came that I didn't understand.

So it is an experience. Backed by scripture.
 

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I and you were a flesh being until the new birth. My soul was primary in life for it was the 5 senses of human nature that I lived in this world by. However, a spiritual man or woman lives by the Spirit. We are led by the Spirit.

Soulish men and women are just that. Human nature is primary.

~Rom 8:2  For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. 


Rom 8:3  For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
 

Rom 8:4  That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
 

Rom 8:5  For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
 

Rom 8:6  For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. 


Rom 8:7  Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
 

Rom 8:8  So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
 

Rom 8:9  But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his. 

The giftings of Holy Spirit are the "tools" of Holy Spirit that we witness to others through. I've had some ask me questions, and I not know the answers, but Holy Spirit will speak through me in the gift of knowledge. Or see into one's heart to know what is needed to minister.

The giftings of God are very important. And tongues most important for the individual. We are speaking to God...and He edifies us through this.

Why not want everything that Jesus has left for us to minister through?

They aren't spooky...and a spiritual person is just one that Spirit is primary in the life. Not soul.

Our soul is in the process of being saved. Another reason why we need the gift of tongues.


Stones, it is simply not true that every Christian is given the gift of speaking in tongues. IT was not in Paul's time and it is not today! Who taught you this?
Also wenn are still in our weak body and doing sind. Ore would you claim that you are without any sin, since you are belong to Jesus Christ?
 
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What language were you speaking in and was there an interpreter? You said it was scriptural.


I knew nothing about tongues when I was baptized by Holy Spirit. And I prophesied before I spoke in another language. I didn't know what had happened was prophecy.

What I received first was worship. As I was worshipping the Lord, which was pretty much a constant thing, words came that I didn't understand.

So it is an experience. Backed by scripture.
 

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Stones, it is simply not true that every Christian is given the gift of speaking in tongues. IT was not in Paul's time and it is not today! Who taught you this?
Also wenn are still in our weak body and doing sind. Ore would you claim that you are without any sin, since you are belong to Jesus Christ?

I think that is misunderstood wolf. Not all have the gift of tongues which is a message to the church that needs to be translated. But, all Spiritual men and women have the right to have a spiritual language.

~Also wenn are still in our weak body and doing sind. Ore would you claim that you are without any sin, since you are belong to Jesus Christ?[
I don't quite understand this wolf.
 

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Sorry, this automatically Program!
I want say: Also we are still in our weak body and doing sin.........
 

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I think that is misunderstood wolf. Not all have the gift of tongues which is a message to the church that needs to be translated. But, all Spiritual men and women have the right to have a spiritual language.
Where the bible is teaching this? That is not True!
 

stonesoffire

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Where the bible is teaching this? That is not True!
OH, yes it is. The gift of tongues that is least is speaking a message to the church in your heavenly language. This must be followed by interpretation.

The prayer language is for our personal prayer.
 

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Sorry, this automatically Program!
I want say: Also we are still in our weak body and doing sin.........
To worship God, I would say one would not sin. But, having the baptism doesn't stop one from sinning. Anyone can be tempted by a weakness of flesh. For a time anyway.
 

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OH, yes it is. The gift of tongues that is least is speaking a message to the church in your heavenly language. This must be followed by interpretation.

The prayer language is for our personal prayer.
Where it is written that every believer has a spiritual language?