Can you be out of Fellowship with God and still be Saved?

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Can you be out of Fellowship with God and still be Saved?


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" Try taking a chance on seeing something differently. Open yourself to the other side of the coin. Knowing all angles of a battlefield as well as your enemy makes for a better outcome in war.

Take a lesson from Sun Tzu who offers a holistic perspective:And therefore I say: ‘Know the enemy, know yourself; victory will never be endangered. Know the ground, know the weather; your victory will then be total.’

What do you think of Peter, Moses, David? All men who broke fellowship with God? Peter the rock who denied christ three times? David had to be told of his sin by Nathan before he repented? Moses killed an Egyptian and hid the body and only fled when a fellow jew asked "Will you kill me as well"?

Did they ever have broken fellowship? Did they lose their salvation because of these sins?
One is not save when they break fellowship with God anymore then they are saved before they accepted God.
 
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I notice on your profile it says the following:
Accepted Christ in 1992 and Renewed my Faith in 2010.
As for my personal life: Well, I renewed my faith in Jesus in 2010 after meeting a beautiful Christian woman who lives in Brazil. I am now currently engaged to her and we are seeking to marry soon so as to serve and glorify Jesus Christ in all things within our lives.

What were you doing all those years between 1992 and 2010? For someone so strongly in support of scripture stating one can fall away vs OSAS, how do you even ''renew your faith''?

This would be very informative.


Well, I am not surprised you are trying to make this personal instead of dealing with the texts that I have presented that disprove the OSAS proponent's belief that they can be out of fellowship with God and still be saved. This is the standard MO for many OSAS believers I have debated with over the years.

James 5:19-20 talks about how the saints can renew a fellow brother or sister back to the faith because they have backslidden into sin. The backslidden believer has erred from the truth; But if a faithful believer converts this backslidden brother or sister back to the faith, they will in effect have helped cover a multitude of their sins and save their soul from death.

If a believer has backslidden into sin (But not have denied Jesus Christ as their Savior), they have a chance to repent or confess of their sin and have a chance at renewing their faith.

Hebrews 6 speaks of apostasy and or a denial of the Lord Jesus Christ while having the Spirit. Please take note that Peter did not have the Spirit when he denied the Lord. The conditions in Hebrews 6 involve denying the Lord while having abided with the Spirit.
 
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Also, folks are confused about the mention of the Law within the New Testament. There are two wrong extremes in misundestanding it.

#1 Wrong Extreme is thinking the Law of Moses is still in effect.
#2 Wrong Extreme is thinking that the moral law (Which is a part of loving your neighbor) is done away with.

Take for example #1: Some believe we have to obey the entire Law of Moses. Honestly, we are not seeking to rebuild the Temple to sacrifice animals again. Neither are we looking to eat unclean animals when Peter was told that he could eat unclean animals. Neither are we to render an eye for an eye anymore. For we are to now turn the other cheek. For no man puts new wine into old wine skins. However, Paul talks about how if we love our neighbor, we fulfill the Law. Does performing certain rituals of the OT mean we are loving our neighbor? Not really. We are under the Commands within the New Testament and not the Old Testament.

Take for example #2: Some believe we can ignore the moral law and still be saved. In fact, many wrongfully equate in not doing evil things such as murder, rape, lying, lusting, hating, stealing, idolatry, and drunkenness as works. But one is not doing any good works by refusing to do evil. One is choosing not to do evil. Not doing evil things is a passive action. Doing good works is a proactive thing. Like preaching the gospel, helping the poor, helping churches, and in using your talents for the kingdom of God. One has to actively do something. That is a work. Not doing evil as mentioned above is not a work. I mean honestly. I shouldn't have to tell you that doing evil is wrong. You should not need a Bible to tell you that. But I appeal to the fact that your country, your soceity, your family would not function properly if there was no sense of Law and justice. Do you think there will be no upholding of any Law and justice in God's Kingdom? How do you know good people from bad people in this world? It's by what they do. No? Or do you think that maybe that axe murderer who killed a bunch of people last week might be saved?

Do you not know that Scripture says if you do not forgive, the Father will not forgive you?
Do you not know that Scripture says that if you take away the words from God's Holy Word, that God will take away your part from out of the book of life? Meaning, your name will not be in it.

For if one can think they can have fellowship and still be saved then why does Jesus tell us He never knew certain professing believers who did many wonderful works for Him? It's because many of them never truly had a right fellowship with Him to begin with. They believed falsely like many others who believe falsely about Jesus and His ways in the many false religions that are out there.

One is saved by God's grace. Not in a religion of doing a bunch of religious things. But if you are saved by God's grace, not doing things that are evil is like the basics for a believer. They will not want to do those things because they are transformed and renewed by the Spirit. If they do mess up, they will confess of their sins. But if a self professing believer thinks they can sin and still be saved and live life however they like, they have another thing coming to them (And it's not good).

For God's people are goood. They are not evil.
 
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Sin is a work of the flesh and of the old man and we are to put off these works and lay aside the sin and weight that so easily besets us from running the race. To put these off we do so as we would a coat. We lay these things aside because they have nothing to do with what we have been called to be as partakers of the grace of God and ministry of Jesus Christ.We are mandated through grace to walk in the Spirit that we do not fulfill the lust of the flesh which would hinder our fellowship with Christ through the Spirit.
 
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how many sins did this man omit???
Luke 18:13
And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.

His seed ...you have to follow his seed....the word...that is the incorruptible seed....there is nothing like unbirth...you must be reborn by the word of God...when one sins they are rejecting the word/seed of God .....sin and the Spirit of God cannot abide in the same house/body...the one you obey is your master...God does not share his temple with sin...when your temple is rid of sin then will God dwell in it...
The incorruptible seed is that holy Spirit created in you by God when you believed in his only begotten Son. You received faith through the word of God - Romans 10:17 So then faith cometh by hearing and hearing by [through] the word of God. . . . Being born again, not of corruptible seed but of incorruptible by [through] the word of God which liveth and abideth for ever. 1 Peter 1:23 We are born again of incorruptible seed through hearing the word of God. And you are correct we cannot be un-born!

"when your temple is rid of sin then will God dwell in it.." God will dwell in those who confess Jesus as Lord and believe that He raised him from the dead - that is when you are born again - remember Jesus Christ came to those who were "sick" not to those who were already "well". "They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick" You don't clean yourself up first . . . "I came not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance." If you could clean yourself up first and on your own - what need do you have of a Savior?
 
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Also, folks are confused about the mention of the Law within the New Testament. There are two wrong extremes in misundestanding it.

#1 Wrong Extreme is thinking the Law of Moses is still in effect.
#2 Wrong Extreme is thinking that the moral law (Which is a part of loving your neighbor) is done away with.

Take for example #1: Some believe we have to obey the entire Law of Moses. Honestly, we are not seeking to rebuild the Temple to sacrifice animals again. Neither are we looking to eat unclean animals when Peter was told that he could eat unclean animals. Neither are we to render an eye for an eye anymore. For we are to now turn the other cheek. For no man puts new wine into old wine skins. However, Paul talks about how if we love our neighbor, we fulfill the Law. Does performing certain rituals of the OT mean we are loving our neighbor? Not really. We are under the Commands within the New Testament and not the Old Testament.

Take for example #2: Some believe we can ignore the moral law and still be saved. In fact, many wrongfully equate in not doing evil things such as murder, rape, lying, lusting, hating, stealing, idolatry, and drunkenness as works. But one is not doing any good works by refusing to do evil. One is choosing not to do evil. Not doing evil things is a passive action. Doing good works is a proactive thing. Like preaching the gospel, helping the poor, helping churches, and in using your talents for the kingdom of God. One has to actively do something. That is a work. Not doing evil as mentioned above is not a work. I mean honestly. I shouldn't have to tell you that doing evil is wrong. You should not need a Bible to tell you that. But I appeal to the fact that your country, your soceity, your family would not function properly if there was no sense of Law and justice. Do you think there will be no upholding of any Law and justice in God's Kingdom? How do you know good people from bad people in this world? It's by what they do. No? Or do you think that maybe that axe murderer who killed a bunch of people last week might be saved?

Do you not know that Scripture says if you do not forgive, the Father will not forgive you?
Do you not know that Scripture says that if you take away the words from God's Holy Word, that God will take away your part from out of the book of life? Meaning, your name will not be in it.

For if one can think they can have fellowship and still be saved then why does Jesus tell us He never knew certain professing believers who did many wonderful works for Him? It's because many of them never truly had a right fellowship with Him to begin with. They believed falsely like many others who believe falsely about Jesus and His ways in the many false religions that are out there.

One is saved by God's grace. Not in a religion of doing a bunch of religious things. But if you are saved by God's grace, not doing things that are evil is like the basics for a believer. They will not want to do those things because they are transformed and renewed by the Spirit. If they do mess up, they will confess of their sins. But if a self professing believer thinks they can sin and still be saved and live life however they like, they have another thing coming to them (And it's not good).

For God's people are goood. They are not evil.
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Meant to say, "they can have no fellowship. "
 
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Sin is a work of the flesh and of the old man and we are to put off these works and lay aside the sin and weight that so easily besets us from running the race. To put these off we do so as we would a coat. We lay these things aside because they have nothing to do with what we have been called to be as partakers of the grace of God and ministry of Jesus Christ.We are mandated through grace to walk in the Spirit that we do not fulfill the lust of the flesh which would hinder our fellowship with Christ through the Spirit.
Yes, to not do so means one is not saved. That's why it mandated. For be not deceived, the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kingdom of God.
 

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Yes, to not do so means one is not saved. That's why it mandated. For be not deceived, the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kingdom of God.
Jason, this is correct, but who on here is saying that?? maybe I am just flat-out missing something, but I just do not see anyone one here saying you can lead a sinful lifestyle and still be saved.
 
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The incorruptible seed is that holy Spirit created in you by God when you believed in his only begotten Son. You received faith through the word of God - Romans 10:17 So then faith cometh by hearing and hearing by [through] the word of God. . . . Being born again, not of corruptible seed but of incorruptible by [through] the word of God which liveth and abideth for ever. 1 Peter 1:23 We are born again of incorruptible seed through hearing the word of God. And you are correct we cannot be un-born!

"when your temple is rid of sin then will God dwell in it.." God will dwell in those who confess Jesus as Lord and believe that He raised him from the dead - that is when you are born again - remember Jesus Christ came to those who were "sick" not to those who were already "well". "They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick" You don't clean yourself up first . . . "I came not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance." If you could clean yourself up first and on your own - what need do you have of a Savior?
God is not created in you. God is eternal. God lives in the believer. God is incorruptible. His Word is pure and is not corrupted. It doesn't mean you are not incorruptible. That doesn't make any sense. Just because Adam was created by God and had fellowship with Him does not mean He did not fall away from Him, whereby He needed a Savior. For what makes you different than Adam?
 
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I think God knows what is in our hearts - A while back, before i was saved, i thought of my relationship as non-existent with Him. But He stuck His hand out to me and brought me back! He loved me, even though i did not love Him. He saved me, even though i did not know i needed saving. I think the fellowship and relationship we now have is made stronger by my love for Him.
 
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Jason, this is correct, but who on here is saying that?? maybe I am just flat-out missing something, but I just do not see anyone one here saying you can lead a sinful lifestyle and still be saved.
Sin separates a person from God. Folks who have voted in the poll that they can be out of fellowship and still be saved are saying they can sin and still be saved.
 
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If you believe you can be out of fellowship with God and still be saved, then that means you can sin and still be saved. But 1 John 5:12 says, He that has the Son has life and He that does not have the Son does not have life. Also, thinking you can sin and still be saved (or be out of fellowship with God) regulates 1 John 3:6 and 1 John 3:9 as useless background noise to you. You can't use these verses to defend your doctrine because they teach the exact opposite of the concept of a sin and still be saved type belief. Oh, and read the verses in the KJV. They mention the word "whosoever" within both verses. Also, you must take note that there are no chapter breaks in the original text. 1 John chapter 3 is connected to 1 John chapter
God back and read my post on 1 John 3 - Did I not go back and forth from 1 John 3 to 1 John 1?

1 John 5:1 - Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God: and every one that loveth him that begat loveth him also that is begotten of him. . . .12 He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life . . He that believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God = he that hath the Son hath life . . . . [key word: born]

I looked at them before in context and in context with 1 John 1 and 1 John 2.

6 No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. (If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 1 John 1:8) [WATCH THIS] NO ONE WHO CONTINUES TO SIN HAS EITHER SEEN HIM OR KNOWN HIM. (which would be an unbeliever)
7 Dear children, do not let any one lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous. (Any believer in Christ WANTS to do what is right, may fall but that heart's desire is still there - we do not remain "out of fellowship", i.e. in sin because If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 1 John 1:8)
8 The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning (NO ONE WHO CONTINUES TO SIN HAS EITHER SEEN HIM OR KNOWN HIM) The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work.
9 No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God.
It's really simple . . . no background noise at all

1. OSAS proponents say they are crucified with Christ and that there sin is buried. OSAS proponents say all future sin in their life is forgiven. So they are forever saved no matter if they sin and refuse to repent of it or not. This is essentially saying you have no sin because of a belief on Jesus Christ. Right? But 1 John 1:8 says if we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 1 John 1:6 says if we say we have fellowship with Him and walk in darkness, we lie and do not the truth. 1 John 1:7 says if we walk in the Light as He is in the Light then the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin. 1 John 1:9 says, if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. All unrighteousness is sin (1 John 5:17).
One thing - I would appreciate it if you would please quit labeling me.

I am saved for ever because I have be born again of God. I am a daughter of God. I will never lose that position within the family of God. Will I sin? Yes, never said that I have no sin.

When I sin am I out of fellowship with God, his Son, and with members in the family? Yes.

Did that sin break a relationship within the family? Yes.

Is God grieved? Yes, just as a parent would be.

Will I be convicted of that sin? Yes.

What do I need to do to restore that relationship? 1 John 1:9

Did that sin remove me from being in the family? No, nothing will remove my birth place . . . .

 
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Uh, it's not wrong pointing out evil behavior. It's not wrong to say Hitler is evil; Or that the criminal who raped a bunch of women down the street is a bad guy. It not wrong to speak out against evil behavior in a self professing believer as if God would reward them for their evil by letting them into Heaven.

Believing that one can do evil and be rewarded for it is wrong. It is at the very heart pure evil and you know it. Jude 1:4 NIV says there are those who have turned the gospel into a license for immorality.
And who here has done that?
 
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One is not save when they break fellowship with God anymore then they are saved before they accepted God.
So you are saying that what God has begotten in you can be un-begotten? Before I accepted God - I didn't care how I lived - I had no remorse that is NOT the same for a born again child of God!

If I am in a traffic jam . . . I am getting angry because I am in a hurry. Once the traffic starts moving again - I am in an accident and I die of my injuries - Am I going to hell because I didn't IMMEDIATELY confess that sin?
 
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The incorruptible seed is that holy Spirit created in you by God when you believed in his only begotten Son. You received faith through the word of God - Romans 10:17 So then faith cometh by hearing and hearing by [through] the word of God. . . . Being born again, not of corruptible seed but of incorruptible by [through] the word of God which liveth and abideth for ever. 1 Peter 1:23 We are born again of incorruptible seed through hearing the word of God. And you are correct we cannot be un-born!

where do you get your scripture...God did not create a holy spirit in you...
1 John 4:13

Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us, because he hath given us of his Spirit..

and this is the record of the promise of the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Acts 2:37-39King James Version (KJV)
[SUP]37 [/SUP]Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?
[SUP]38 [/SUP]Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
[SUP]39 [/SUP]For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.



look how you twist the word
1 Peter 1:23
Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.

by the word of God... gives the impression of obedience to the word ofGod...which is different from....through hearing the word of God...which gives the impression of simply by hearing the word of God





"when your temple is rid of sin then will God dwell in it.." God will dwell in those who confess Jesus as Lord and believe that He raised him from the dead - that is when you are born again - remember Jesus Christ came to those who were "sick" not to those who were already "well". "They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick" You don't clean yourself up first . . . "I came not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance." If you could clean yourself up first and on your own - what need do you have of a Savior?
Acts 2:38-39 tells the true account of ridding the body of sin so the HS can dwell in someone...
 
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So you are saying that what God has begotten in you can be un-begotten? Before I accepted God - I didn't care how I lived - I had no remorse that is NOT the same for a born again child of God!

If I am in a traffic jam . . . I am getting angry because I am in a hurry. Once the traffic starts moving again - I am in an accident and I die of my injuries - Am I going to hell because I didn't IMMEDIATELY confess that sin?
you don't even know scripture ....one can be angry and not sin...
Ephesians 4:26
Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:


your concept of scripture is not based on the truth and thus you have a false sense of security....God is teaching us responsibility what you propose is encouraging irresponsibility.... 1 Corinthians 6:2
Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters?
 
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God is not created in you. God is eternal. God lives in the believer. God is incorruptible. His Word is pure and is not corrupted. It doesn't mean you are not incorruptible. That doesn't make any sense. Just because Adam was created by God and had fellowship with Him does not mean He did not fall away from Him, whereby He needed a Savior. For what makes you different than Adam?
That which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

When you are saved - God in Christ dwells in you via the gift of Holy Spirit - that is the "incorruptible" seed born within you and makes you "begotten of God". We are now his workmanship created in Christ Jesus unto good works [Eph. 2:10]. A "new man" has been created in us and that "new man" is after the image of him [God, i.e. Spirit] that created him [the new man; Col. 3:10] which is created in righteousness and true holiness [Eph. 4:24]. That is what makes a born again believer righteous - NOT our flesh. How did we become born again? Through hearing the word of God; we believe what we hear, confess Jesus as Lord, believe God raised him from the dead - we are born again of incorruptible seed. The "new man" that is created in us is incorruptible being made in the image [spirit] of God. That is what makes us different from Adam - the new birth.
 
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Yes, to not do so means one is not saved. That's why it mandated. For be not deceived, the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kingdom of God.
But we are made righteous by faith in and of Jesus Christ . . . But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets; Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference.

There is none righteous no not one . . . YOU can do nothing in and of yourself to MAKE yourself righteous - it is God's doing.

For if by one man's offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ. Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life. For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.

We have been made righteous in the inner man, the new man - born into the family of God. We now begin our walk - we should at all times walk in/by the Spirit but being still in the flesh [old man] we sometimes fail . . . doesn't remove us from the family of God which we have been born into BUT it breaks that fellowship. To restore our fellowship with God, his Son, and the family - we confess that we have sinned and we are restored. Fellowship has to do with our WALK within the family NOT with our salvation.
 
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That which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

When you are saved - God in Christ dwells in you via the gift of Holy Spirit - that is the "incorruptible" seed born within you and makes you "begotten of God". We are now his workmanship created in Christ Jesus unto good works [Eph. 2:10]. A "new man" has been created in us and that "new man" is after the image of him [God, i.e. Spirit] that created him [the new man; Col. 3:10] which is created in righteousness and true holiness [Eph. 4:24]. That is what makes a born again believer righteous - NOT our flesh. How did we become born again? Through hearing the word of God; we believe what we hear, confess Jesus as Lord, believe God raised him from the dead - we are born again of incorruptible seed. The "new man" that is created in us is incorruptible being made in the image [spirit] of God. That is what makes us different from Adam - the new birth.
you have no understanding of scripture and teach a false doctrine...you are saving man without repentance without baptism and the remission of sins and you give the HS contrary to scripture...you also act irresponsible toward the body which is the temple of the HS
1 Thessalonians 5:23
And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
 
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What knd of fellowship a thief could have the moment he was crucified with Jesus, our Lord? Yet, He said he was to be in the Paradise.

Not eveyone saying: "Lord! Lord!..."

Why that sort of free salvation is sold out lying people to "be saved" without developing a LOVE relatioship with God, the Lord Jesus and His people?

I hope He be near to those who still seek His salvation and love bondage.