Do you really believe and are you really saved?

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Sirk

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I am not a fan of the 'never saved in the first place, if they fall...' type teaching. When someone genuinely has called for salvation.. it's done. They have eternal life. That shall not perish in hell.

So when people fail, struggle after being saved.. it's just that.. struggle.. failure..not a proof that they were never saved to begin with.

Sure for someone to a complete turnaround.. like going from being a christian to an atheist.. you gotta be wondering whether they really were serious in the first place..

but just because they go from a christian to an atheists.. doesn't mean they didn't at some point get delivered eternally.

What God does with someone's soul/spirit isn't always obvious to others.

The cares of this world can indeed stifle someone. That doesn't mean the Holy Spirit never saved them.
What if somebody raises their hand in a drunken stupor.? I've seen it happen and I could smell the booze on them from the stage.
 
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kennethcadwell

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Cleanse out the old leaven that you may be a new lump, as you really are unleavened.
For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.

(1 Corinthians 5:7)

i noticed this the other day -- speaking to believers not only in sin, but boasting over it.
Paul doesn't call them leavened -- but tells them to take out the leaven because they really are unleavened.

to me, that really drove home the truth of what you guys are saying here :)
and that's peace that can scarcely be understood.

or am i reading this wrong? what do you think? i also happen to be blonde, ha!

Cleansing out the old leaven is in reference to doing away with your old self and how you previously walked.
Until a person stops walking in deliberate sin they will remain a slave to that unrighteousness, and can not come to the full knowledge and salvation through Jesus Christ.

This verse is also in context in this whole chapter where Paul is stating that if one who considers themselves a believer in Christ but does not want to give up their sinful ways they are to be cast out of the church. Left into the hands of the sinful world (handed over to satan for the destruction of the flesh) to let them fall to where hopefully they will see the error in their ways and repent.

If you allow the willful sinner to remain among the group he could easily lead others down this false way of living and back to condemnation under the law. Apostle James clarifies this to and says those who are brethren and wanders away from the faith in Jesus Christ, only if they are brought back will their soul be saved.
 
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kennethcadwell

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This is precisely why the whole debate is a non starter for me. The debate on whether one can lose their salvation is based on a false premise.

Actually it is based on scripture rather you agree with it or not;


[h=1]James 5:19-20New King James Version (NKJV)[/h][h=3]Bring Back the Erring One[/h]19Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul[a] from death and cover a multitude of sins.


God is the only one who can destroy the soul by casting it into the lake of fire, and James clearly shows here that if a person falls away from the faith their soul is not saved. It is not saved unless they come back to the Lord.
 
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I do bet several in here have worn bullet proof jackets...

I´m also sure there are some ppl here who might have claimed "I´m saved" but it is seen a bullet hit their head and end up dead (or hurt).

I decided to pay heed on Jesus´ word (to please Him and God, the Father):

Mat 7:21 Not everyone who calls me their Lord will get into the kingdom of heaven. Only the ones who obey my Father in heaven will get in.
 

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We are to look to Christ alone and His work in our stead for our assurance. Not look to our own experience, our own obedience, works, law-keeping, sacrifices, sufferings, trials etc, etc. Not looking to self. We look unto Jesus, through the gospel. That's how we really believe and that's how we are really saved. And that alone.
Sir, you hit the nail right on the head.
That is the point I was trying to get across without saying it outright.
Our foundation is in Jesus, and what is Jesus. He IS the word of God, also know as the immovable rock. We are told to dig deep and lay our foundation in the said rock, that when the storms of life come, we would not fall like the ones who built their house on the sand.
The sand being, life's experiences and what the five physical senses dictate.
When we look to the word of God, we are looking at Jesus. If we look at things in the natural and believe what we see, feel, hear, and the like, then we will fall. It's just that simple.
 

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LOL I love a good laugh in the morning.

What am I laughing about? After reading, "Most of you" more often than you noticed your reallys, you have the audacity to say,


Apparently, you, supposedly, really do know everything there is to know about everyone on this site. So then why ask what we believe after telling us what we believe? Obviously no need to tell you what I believe, because you already know. So, thanks for the good laugh. LOL
It might do you good to check out your fruit ma'am, for a tree in know by its fruit.
Either make the tree good and his fruit will be good, or else make the tree corrupt and his fruit will be evil.
 

know1

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There's the problem...
Also the Holy Spirit illuminates our understanding to His Word..Experience? Maybe.
You are a sharp one, aren't you?
Yes, the problem was that he was basing is believing in his experiences rather than what is written.
The funny thing about that though, is when I mention the promises of God concerning healing, most ignore what is written and tell me about their experiences.
 

know1

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Read the parable of the tares. There is absolutely nothing to keep the tares out of the pulpit; since they don't even recognize themselves as tares, and since there is nothing to keep tares, in some congregations from outnumbering the wheat.
True.
Sadly, that is how I see many on this forum.
 
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Sirk

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Actually it is based on scripture rather you agree with it or not;


James 5:19-20New King James Version (NKJV)

Bring Back the Erring One

19Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul[a] from death and cover a multitude of sins.


God is the only one who can destroy the soul by casting it into the lake of fire, and James clearly shows here that if a person falls away from the faith their soul is not saved. It is not saved unless they come back to the Lord.
19-20 My dear friends, if you know people who have wandered off from God’s truth, don’t write them off. Go after them. Get them back and you will have rescued precious lives from destruction and prevented an epidemic of wandering away from God.


Kind of gives a different perspective on it doesn't it?
 

know1

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This is precisely why the whole debate is a non starter for me. The debate on whether one can lose their salvation is based on a false premise.
Some would see it cut and dry, but I see it differently.
Like God's love for His children, salvation is conditional.
 
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Romans 8.14:[SUP]14 [/SUP]For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.
 
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Sirk

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Some would see it cut and dry, but I see it differently.
Like God's love for His children, salvation is conditional.
A son is a son and a daughter is a daughter.....no conditions on that....unless you can get out of it with a paternity test.
 

know1

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Actually it is based on scripture rather you agree with it or not;


James 5:19-20New King James Version (NKJV)

Bring Back the Erring One

19Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul[a] from death and cover a multitude of sins.


God is the only one who can destroy the soul by casting it into the lake of fire, and James clearly shows here that if a person falls away from the faith their soul is not saved. It is not saved unless they come back to the Lord.
What you have said is a true statement. It is very clear in scripture. Salvation is given when you agree with and believe the gospel. Then and only then is the seed/offspring of God's word planted in your heart. If you were to reject the word of God later, then you will have rejected the Spirit of Truth, and the bible says, can two walk together except they be agreed? If you reject the gospel/truth/word of God, then God will not walk with you or stay with you.
Again, it is conditional.
 
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Some would see it cut and dry, but I see it differently.
Like God's love for His children, salvation is conditional.
The Bible says GOD IS LOVE! Love is not an emotion, a behavior, or an attribute of God, LOVE is who he is!

1 John 4.8:[SUP]8 [/SUP]The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

Stop walking in the ditch and get back on the road.
 

know1

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A son is a son and a daughter is a daughter.....no conditions on that....unless you can get out of it with a paternity test.
The only reason you are called a son of God is because of the seed/Spirit of Christ that is in you. Reject the Spirit or the gospel/seed and you are a son no more.


Mat 13:5 Some fell upon stony places, where they had not much earth: and forthwith they sprung up, because they had no deepness of earth:
Mat 13:6 And when the sun was up, they were scorched; and because they had no root, they withered away.

Mat 13:20 But he that received the seed into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receiveth it;
Mat 13:21 Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word, by and by he is offended.

which for a while believe, and in time of temptation fall away. Luke


Joh 15:10 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.

Notice that the seed died shortly after it was planted and the person fell away.
Also take note that God's love toward you is conditional.
 

know1

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The Bible says GOD IS LOVE! Love is not an emotion, a behavior, or an attribute of God, LOVE is who he is!

1 John 4.8:[SUP]8 [/SUP]The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

Stop walking in the ditch and get back on the road.
Joh 15:9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
Joh 15:10 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.

I already posted it, but I'll do it again for you.
It's right there, God's love is conditional toward you even as it was conditional toward Jesus.
The condition being, to keep God's commandments.
 
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MadParrotWoman

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I have to say that if i hadnt had the intimate experience with God i would never believe, perhaps say i believed but deep down doubting. it was God who rescued me, i didnt capture Him and made Him mine, so i just cannot doubt waht happened to me, and on that day He showed me all taht He is, that He works the impossible etc, only later on i started reading the Bible to testify to what i had went through. i have said this in a thread i started, i was made to believe i was saved and knew God when i actually never did and sinc ei couldnt put up with that fake life i simply decided God (all that religion stuff) just didnt exist and i started another path but that wasnt fulfilling me either because i actually was after love, unaware, and He ended up revealing Himself to me and giving me His Spirit. so, as for healing, miracles, i know thats inherent in Him because He worked a miracle the day before He made me reborn, so i cant unlive what i lived, unknow Him. by the way, the years after having this personal encounter with Him i was naive and again started accepting everything as from Him and when i realized i was worse than ever, now im being more bold and listening to Him alone to make me walk in this narrow and winding road. btw again i had two dreams after i got reborn, in one i was standing on a grassy field then suddenly i was placed on a narrow, winding and slippery road in the clouds and below me was the world, then after walking some of it i slipped and was hanging by my fingers then was able to be back on the road, in the other dream i was in a dark forest then suddenly a beautiful sparkling white dove appeared and i was in awe thinking i didnt feel worthy to have it come near me then it landed on my finger and i felt just like when i got reborn, in total awe and knew who God really is. then, as i said, about a year after that i decided to read the bible and found those verses about the dove representing the Spirit and the verse about the narrow road... God is a God of truth and He isnt afraid of questions, He knows our hearts and if we really want Him He will come to us, at His timing, to reveal Himself to us in a way we can NEVER doubt. man may tell us about God a billion times, even as im doing now talking about my experience, but only experiencing it oneself can we really be sure. thats what i pray that may happen to others, not that God will save them out of debt, of give them a good job, or save their marriage, save their kids from drugs, because i think thats only a taste of who God is, but not enough to really KNOW Him in a way that there will be absolutely no room for doubt. thats my experience but there may be a million different others, but we just KNOW He will never leave us and taht we are His forever.
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Yes, we can be in denial all we like but we cannot deny the experience we go through upon finding God. Now that I have Him I will never let Him go.
 
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MadParrotWoman

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...just to add, I find it very reassuring that there are many others who go through the very same emotions upon finding God. It's a kind of reassurance that it wasn't just me "being emotional" or that I somehow imagined or willed it.

God is good!
 
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Most of you believe according to yours or someone else's experiences
At one point in the midst of a three day sandstorm with 90 mph sustained winds, I prayed and asked God to stop the wind. The wind immediately stopped around me but continued to whip against everyone else just a few feet away. I don't merely believe in God, I acknowledge Him! To God be the glory!
 
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At one point in the midst of a three day sandstorm with 90 mph sustained winds, I prayed and asked God to stop the wind. The wind immediately stopped around me but continued to whip against everyone else just a few feet away. I don't merely believe in God, I acknowledge Him! To God be the glory!
On Edit: Jesus tells us, "Let it be done according to our faith." I am saved according to my faith in Jesus.