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Youre putting way too much on earthly things, and even though this is one that God /allows/, it is still an earthly desire, and you should avoid putting all your focus on it. Christ did not have a girlfriend. His apostles did not have girlfriends. Many people go without girlfriends daily. It is entirely possible that God may never give you one. Or He may just have different things for you to do now. But it sorta sounds like youre angry that God wont give you something that you dont really even need. Thats really bad. Let go of your desires. We are told that what we tie ourselves to in life, we tie ourselves to in death. Love between two people /does/ die when they do, marriage does end. So tie yourself to God, and not earthly things.
Id say chill out, man
Many of us do not have partners. You can go without, and even if its really causing you suffering, God tells us that He blesses those who endure in His name. He knows what you need, and tells us He does not answer requests made for self gain. You are better off focusing on God than happiness in this life by /far/. Keep in mind /maaany/ Christians in our world dont even get to have a home, daily food, or even peace and comfort. Remember whats important, God. Not earthly desires :3
Id say chill out, man
Many of us do not have partners. You can go without, and even if its really causing you suffering, God tells us that He blesses those who endure in His name. He knows what you need, and tells us He does not answer requests made for self gain. You are better off focusing on God than happiness in this life by /far/. Keep in mind /maaany/ Christians in our world dont even get to have a home, daily food, or even peace and comfort. Remember whats important, God. Not earthly desires :3
not okay? He is the only thing in my life and I am overjoyed. I see everything as garbage compared to him I adore him and long to be with him. i am so in love with him i cant stand it boy I would give up everything just to hold him in my arms just to have one day with him. Let me tell u I have been single for years ever since I was ten or at least until recently i got a girl so trust me 14 years makes five years easy
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, its just not all its cracked up to be, and Paul speaks of those who marry will have trouble in the flesh, but the disciples even said it not good to marry (not all can accept that saying ofcourse) but to those to whom it has been given. Not that any should forbid it, or even sin in marrying that wouldnt be a factor here one but should really consider it carefully.
Obviously the world divorce rate seems to contradict the big dream.
1Cr 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Cr 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
If married it says,
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery:and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Mat 19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
Mat 19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
1Cr 1:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
1Cr 7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
Obviously the world divorce rate seems to contradict the big dream.
1Cr 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Cr 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
If married it says,
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery:and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Mat 19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
Mat 19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
1Cr 1:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
1Cr 7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
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Youre putting way too much on earthly things, and even though this is one that God /allows/, it is still an earthly desire, and you should avoid putting all your focus on it. Christ did not have a girlfriend. His apostles did not have girlfriends. Many people go without girlfriends daily. It is entirely possible that God may never give you one. Or He may just have different things for you to do now. But it sorta sounds like youre angry that God wont give you something that you dont really even need. Thats really bad. Let go of your desires. We are told that what we tie ourselves to in life, we tie ourselves to in death. Love between two people /does/ die when they do, marriage does end. So tie yourself to God, and not earthly things.
Id say chill out, man Many of us do not have partners. You can go without, and even if its really causing you suffering, God tells us that He blesses those who endure in His name. He knows what you need, and tells us He does not answer requests made for self gain. You are better off focusing on God than happiness in this life by /far/. Keep in mind /maaany/ Christians in our world dont even get to have a home, daily food, or even peace and comfort. Remember whats important, God. Not earthly desires :3
Id say chill out, man
Many of us do not have partners. You can go without, and even if its really causing you suffering, God tells us that He blesses those who endure in His name. He knows what you need, and tells us He does not answer requests made for self gain. You are better off focusing on God than happiness in this life by /far/. Keep in mind /maaany/ Christians in our world dont even get to have a home, daily food, or even peace and comfort. Remember whats important, God. Not earthly desires :3
I dont think its so much wrong to want a wife, God does allow us to marry. But when you say that you keep asking for one and are getting angry that you arent getting one, that worries me. Just let God be your everything. Let God be your best friend, your all and everything, the reason you wake up everyday, your one true love. And when you do find a girlfriend, make sure shes doing this exact same thing
But know that God loves you so much that He gave His only begotten son, so that you can be saved. He did not promise us a great earthly life, but He did promise us that as long as we submit, and follow Him He will lead us to eternal life, a life where you will never have desires again :3
But know that God loves you so much that He gave His only begotten son, so that you can be saved. He did not promise us a great earthly life, but He did promise us that as long as we submit, and follow Him He will lead us to eternal life, a life where you will never have desires again :3
IMO the Most High is not going to give us things/people in our lives unless it is/they are perfect for us, and we never know when or if that will happen. My outlook for myself is try to focus on Him and His will and everything that is right for me will be added. His will be done, whatever His will is.
There is a reason, His path is narrow according to the Messiah, we need to eliminate the outside static so we may hear His voice and guidance, I need to eliminate the static for sure. I think at times we think we are on the path and we are not, but He will use it all for His will and purpose, to teach and guide us.
Did Christ not go through great suffering for you? We are told by God Himself that He will in fact put you through suffering, all for the sake of bringing us closer to Him. He tells us that Christians will be captured and killed, and He tells us when it happens, to let it happen with faith in Him.
Think about it. There are Christians being put to death today merely for having faith in Christ. Do you think being unmarried equals that? This life ends, it is but a vapor. It is meaningless, the bible even tells you that. Put all your lifes focus on loving God. It will lead you to far better things than anything this earth has to offer.
Think about it. There are Christians being put to death today merely for having faith in Christ. Do you think being unmarried equals that? This life ends, it is but a vapor. It is meaningless, the bible even tells you that. Put all your lifes focus on loving God. It will lead you to far better things than anything this earth has to offer.