Not sure where this topic fits, so I'll put it here. I've been looking for a church for years. I never seem to find one that seems to keep me coming back. I was raised catholic and made a few attempts at returning. I've also been to, baptist, Presbyterian, non denominational, churches of christ, Lutheran. I'm not sure what I'm looking for, but I keep seeking. I like in depth bible study which I really only found at church of christ. But feel like something is missing. Or I have trouble conforming to what they say about attending and no instruments in worship. It seems like I want to take a little of every denomination and put it together. Also I've been told certain churches are the one true church and all others aren't saved. That makes me constantly wonder if I'm in the right place. Just wondering i guess what church you like and why.
I have not read through this thread, but I feel it is right I should put an answer. This may have been mentioned, I don't know, but there is only "One Church". It is Jesus Church. It is the "Bride of Christ". There are no denominations or separated members within this Church, there may be churches that meets at such and such a place but the geographical location is the only difference.
For one to say we are right and they are wrong is down to 'man' it is not of the Spirit, and the Spirit is the best place to start. Do you know you have received the Holy Spirit? From this question there are two options, yes or no.
If it is "I think so" then it is no and you need to do something about it and I will deal with this first. The 'I think so' bit will usually come from a childhood experience that you may have been part of but not understood. There is a saying within the church that 'God does not have grand children'. This means that if we went to church with our parents and have followed through to adult hood with out making a separate cognitive choice to follow Jesus and are doing it because we always have, or it just feels right or comfortable, we are not children but grandchildren and God does not have those.
To be a child means to have made the choice to be in Him and have Him in us, which is why we can call God Abba or Daddy, which is the call of a child.
If you have ever made the personal choice to receive Him and have told Him (the Holy Spirit) that you give Him free entry into your whole being with no restrictions within yourself, for Him to enter you and change you as He sees fit then you will have Him, He may be suppressed because that is our choice, but He will be there in this case the answer will be 'Yes'.
As for finding a church that fits what you know of Him, I feel within me that there will not be one. I went to loads after my conversion trying to find the voice that spoke to my heart, a few had an echo of that voice and I plumbed for the one that showed me more love than the others (all showed me love, but some were dependant on hoops or an assault course to run through).
God has bought me now, to a place where I can go to any as I see fit, I do break bread with others at every opportunity, even when they visit me at home. I know they all think I should make a choice , but the Holy Spirit has not condemned me for the way I am now, in fact He has led me to where I am.
In and by His Holy Spirit you to will know where you are or are not to be, through His Spirit that resides within you. Listen to Him. Be comfortable where you are and trust in Him to do what He says He will. I have not meant to be condescending in my answer to your post, and for those parts that may seem so I apologise.
God bless.