If God knows all and sees all from beginning to end. He also knows who His children are through the whole of eternity so saying that Gods children before they were saved would someday be saved is completely valid. Saying the opposite is not giving God His full authority.
Romans 8:28-30(NASB)(emphasis mine)
28And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.
29For those whom He
foreknew, He
also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren;
30and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.
I don't see how this violates that idea of free-will. I believe that God saw that we would make our own choice, and predestined us according to OUR choice. It is possible for God to predestine us as His children and still have it be our choice, since He operates outside of time.
You may say, "well this violates the sovereignty of God." No not really, if you realize that God wrote us into His Sovereign plan, knowing that we would choose Him. Things get quite confusing when you leave the dimension of time, and to say that we have to understand it completely for it to be true, is arrogance at best. I don't believe in a God that we can confine to the limits of human understanding.
The Bible was never meant to be understood by those who rely solely on their own intellect to understand it. In fact, if you have read the gospels, you will notice Jesus intentionally hid truth in parables from people, so only people hungry enough for the truth could understand it.
Is it really so hard to believe that we have a God who is so big that He doesn't need to control our free-will in order to still be in control and have all authority over creation? If we are truly created in the image of God, is it so far fetched to say that we have free-will just like our Father in heaven? Why would God create His children in His image but not give them a mind of their own? Would we truly be His children made in HIS image without free-will? Would we truly be able to
co-reign with Him without free-will?
I don't know why people are so scared of this free-will concept. Maybe because it is scary to think that God has given us some measure of responsibility for what takes place here on Earth? God rewards certain people in heaven for a reason. Because they CHOSE what was right, and
co-labored with Christ to advance His Kingdom here on the Earth. Why would God reward someone in heaven, if the person didn't have any say in what they did here? What is the point of a reward if they didn't have an opportunity to choose wrongly? God rewards because they chose to do what was right, in the midst of the option to choose what was wrong.
I don't believe predestination and free-will are in conflict with one another. I don't understand why it must be one or the other. The Bible contradicts itself if it isn't both and. And we all know the Bible doesn't contradict itself. So maybe we should be adjusting ourselves to what the Bible says, and not adjusting the Bible to us, writing things in that are not there. We need to read verses that are meant to be read literally, literally(I speak both to the Armenian and Calvinist camp).
Much Love,
Machew