Good question. Taking a completely different example, God tells us also to obey the laws of countries, respect our rulers and pay our taxes. These are all just laws, even though they may sometimes come from unjust or ungodly rulers. However, if a country prohibits Christians from spreading the gospel, that's different. I think its the same within marriage. Its strange how many men "love" these type of threads, using it as proof to keep them "submitted". Between the husband and the wife, the husband has the larger responsibility - dying to his wife as Christ died to the church. THAT is the mystery of marriage. The submitting of a wife to a husband is probably a much smaller "submitting" than what the husband should to Christ, and to such a husband, any wife would willfully and happily submit.
I fully support the biblical view (and not the modern / social / cultural views on marriage, but it does seem as if Christian women are getting a raw deal in their marriages. They are very much to a large extent living examples of the Proverbs 31 type woman, whereas the "great" examples of Christian men fulfilling their role as the bible suggest, are indeed scarce.
To answer your question directly, I guess it is possible for the life of a Christian woman to become unlivable if her husband (even Christian) stops her from living her Christian life......lets say for some strange reason, he does not want prayer around the table, or forbids her to attend certain churches.....or does not want to read bible with her or pray with her......such behaviors could make life difficult for any Christian wife. However, God's blessings still rests on a wife who can endure such trials - there are limits though. When abuse becomes physical, or when the safety of children is in question, physical safety takes precedence over emotional survival and separation should be an option.
I fully support the biblical view (and not the modern / social / cultural views on marriage, but it does seem as if Christian women are getting a raw deal in their marriages. They are very much to a large extent living examples of the Proverbs 31 type woman, whereas the "great" examples of Christian men fulfilling their role as the bible suggest, are indeed scarce.
To answer your question directly, I guess it is possible for the life of a Christian woman to become unlivable if her husband (even Christian) stops her from living her Christian life......lets say for some strange reason, he does not want prayer around the table, or forbids her to attend certain churches.....or does not want to read bible with her or pray with her......such behaviors could make life difficult for any Christian wife. However, God's blessings still rests on a wife who can endure such trials - there are limits though. When abuse becomes physical, or when the safety of children is in question, physical safety takes precedence over emotional survival and separation should be an option.