When someone has a heart attack and dies, to remain consistent within the confines of your theology, the nurses would rush in, followed by the doctor, and he would start yelling "Get up! I said, get up!!" Those who choose of their own volition to come back to life live, and those who refuse to do so, remain dead. But within the confines of our theology, the nurses would rush in and start CPR, followed by the doctor coming in and having them administer the necessary drugs to stimulate the heart. Did the person receive CPR? Yes. And I am well aware that this analogy falls woefully short, as mnay more die after receiving CPR than those who survive. But the point I am making is that God has to quicken those who are dead in sins to life BEFORE they can respond.