The Role of the Woman

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cmarieh

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I think I know what you're saying. You just might want to use a different meaning next time. Because I immediately thought 50 Shades type dominating when you said that I've seen a lot of your posts to know that's not what you meant, but that's the society we live in unfortunately. That's what "dominant" has turned into.
Whew! Good. I know it is truly sad that is what society has turned it into.
 

JFSurvivor

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I realize a scared you and I humbly apologize for that.

To dominate is to: control, rule, manage, govern
To be domineering is to be: assertive, overbearing, imperious, oppressive
O_O That doesn't help!! *turns and runs*
 

JFSurvivor

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I think I know what you're saying. You just might want to use a different meaning next time. Because I immediately thought 50 Shades type dominating when you said that I've seen a lot of your posts to know that's not what you meant, but that's the society we live in unfortunately. That's what "dominant" has turned into.
Can you explain it to me then??
 

jsr1221

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O_O That doesn't help!! *turns and runs*
I think she's meaning head of household dominate. Like he makes all the final decisions, because that's the man supposed to lead. She obviously has input. I don't think she's meaning dominate like "Take me. I'm all yours. I want to serve you in any and every way." Like the women in the Middle East that unfortunately don't have self worth. I think what sister Marieh said is being misinterpreted.
 
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cmarieh

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I think she's meaning head of household dominate. Like he makes all the final decisions, because that's the man supposed to lead. She obviously has input. I don't think she's meaning dominate like "Take me. I'm all yours. I want to serve you in any and every way." Like the women in the Middle East that unfortunately don't have self worth. I think what sister Marieh said is being misinterpreted.
Thank you, that is exactly what I was meaning. I am just terrible with words.
 
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Marriage is in rapid decline along with birthrates, especially among young adults.

See: U.S. marriage rate hits new low and may continue to decline | Deseret News National

See: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr64/nvsr64_01.pdf

I wonder what percentage of Christian women walk into the voting booth and vote for more and more radical feminism.

Pretty soon only homosexuals will be getting married and babies will have to be produced in test tubes if these radical feminist anti-male leftist policies and resulting trends continue driving men in Western societies way from marriage and fatherhood en masse.

You may not like Mary's post, and yes it's myopic and one-dimensional, but I'd marry a woman like that and form a nuclear family with her and so would every male I know.

You feminists, I wouldn't touch you with a ten-foot pole. I'll go to my grave single before I'll enter into a government legal contract that renders me powerless which you then nullify making me your government man-slave for potentially the rest of my natural life. THAT is NEVER going to happen. Go pound sand. Period.

The wicked killed off the righteous in Noah's generation forcing God to initiate a hard reset. This "generation" will do it simply by driving away all the good men so only the immoral reproduce.
well, you know, they do sell Barbies

I just don't like teaching that appears biblical but is, in fact, not biblical

it appears you liken women who disagree with this teaching to feminists.....I personally like men...I would not want to be not married...women do have brains though and for some odd reason, God treats us as good as He treats men...in fact, he tells husbands to love their wives sacrificially...not make them into a whore in the bedroom and a servant in the house and a frump in public.

I don't know who these feminists are that you want to pound sand...but this teaching regarding women is not the only off color teaching this church produces...they believe they have perfect truth...well what erroneous church doesn't think that?

I'll go to my grave single before I'll enter into a government legal contract that renders me powerless which you then nullify making me your government man-slave for potentially the rest of my natural life

sounds like someone really hurt you...sorry...but that does not make all women who do not see a biblical mandate in the op evil or man haters

Thanks for your objectivity...said tongue in cheek
 
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stillholdingon

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This is sooooo interesting. I have been dealing with being submissive. It seems that submissive can easily be mistaken for pushover. I also sympathize with the motherly part of it. The kids are really hard to deal with. Im not sure. Thanks for this info.
 
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I agree with you. I desire to be dominated by my future spouse whoever he may be because I want him to take responsibility of the household. The only thing I desire is to be valued and to captivated him.

Please do not take offense...I see you are not married...when you are, please come back and read this

If you still say the same thing, you have married an anomaly of some sort
 

JFSurvivor

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I think she's meaning head of household dominate. Like he makes all the final decisions, because that's the man supposed to lead. She obviously has input. I don't think she's meaning dominate like "Take me. I'm all yours. I want to serve you in any and every way." Like the women in the Middle East that unfortunately don't have self worth. I think what sister Marieh said is being misinterpreted.
Ok yeeeeah still not likin' it but it's not as horrific as before. Thanks Jsr. :)
 
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I do not compare men and women. I read the bible take out what the bible says a role of a woman is and try to apply it to my life. II Corinthians 10:12, "For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and COMPARING THEMSELVES AMONG THEMSELVES, ARE NOT WISE."

God did not make Eve from one of Adam’s foot bones, for Adam to trample over; nor did He make Eve from a bone of Adam’s head, for her to rule over the man. God made Eve from a bone right out of man’s side a help meet at his side

No men and women are not equal (being the same in quantity, size, degree, or value) and they are not meant to be men and women each have different qualities that make them needed and important. That does not mean the should not be equal in the work force or in the eyes of the law.
 
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cmarieh

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Please do not take offense...I see you are not married...when you are, please come back and read this

If you still say the same thing, you have married an anomaly of some sort
I am not taking offense, but you really do not know what I have been through and I have had responsibilities since a young age that most don't even have to deal with and so I have always been more mature than others my age. Granted, I am not married and God created me this way for a purpose. In all my friendships and relationships I have always taken the submissive approach and I don't feel that is wrong. Now, I realize marriage is different. I hope you don't think I am a pushover because I stand up for what I believe in and almost got suspended because I took a stand on abortion being murder. I don't really think there is anything wrong with how I see things. I do apologize if I sound harsh, but I know that I am allowing God to mold me into what he wants for my life.
 

JFSurvivor

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So Blain and I were PMing and I asked him how his previous message relates to women. He was able to put in to words what I was thinking but never able to put in to words for so long. Here's the main part of it:

"It relates to women because you have to think of how God sees women not what you think scripture says about them. It's literally all about who's eyes you are looking through."

This is so crucial. Please take a minute and ask yourself, how does God see women? I would like answers here. Honest ones. How God sees women and what we THINK scripture says about them are pretty opposite.

Esther
Deborah
Ruth
Mary (Jesus's mom)
Mary Magdalene
Lydia

Are just a few. How does the Bible portray these women? Not as weak or feeble. There is a point in the book of Esther where she literally says, "If I perish, I perish." That takes strength and guts. Esther was no submissive little house wife. She was strong.

And Ruth she could have gone off to another husband but she stayed with Naomi. How is that weak?

Look at Proverbs 31

Ephesians 5:25 was written during a time when women had less monetary value than a goat. Women should not have monetary value to begin with. If this was written at a time when men didn't HAVE to love their wives why did God put it in there to begin with??

Genesis 1:27 ..in His image He created them male and female... So he also created women in His image.

Galatians 3:28 If we are all really equal in Christ then why don't we act like it? Why stress male headship? Why not stress Christ-like equality?

People tend to look at women as "the second sex" or "the weaker sex". You can deny it all you want but when you quote certain Bible verses you are instilling in young womens minds that they are not capable or competent.

Can we please look at Gods heart on this one?
 
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CeileDe

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It looks to me like you really don't want a biblical answer to this but a man made answer. Ooops a woman made answer.
 

JFSurvivor

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It looks to me like you really don't want a biblical answer to this but a man made answer. Ooops a woman made answer.
nope I want a God-made answer. also did you not see all the scripture I quoted???
 
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CeileDe

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nope I want a God-made answer. also did you not see all the scripture I quoted???
Yes I did and you left out a lot of scripture. You hand picked scripture to make it fit your argument.
 
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skylove7

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There are Saints..and Angels too .Gods' FEMALE Saints and Angels....that fight demons. God made woman to love and adore a good man...but he didnt make women to be walked all over by a man. I am not wise by any means...but this I know.
 

Blain

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It looks to me like you really don't want a biblical answer to this but a man made answer. Ooops a woman made answer.
So i'm a women then? What I said was in fact biblical
 

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The Role of the Woman
The Woman Is a Helper

  1. God made it a man’s world, and Eve was created to be his helping companion (Gen 2:18-25).
The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it; 2for he founded it on the seas and established it on the waters. Ps 24:1-2

Eat anything sold in the meat market without raising questions of conscience, 26for, “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it.” 1 Cor 10:26

"Look, the highest heavens and the earth and everything in it all belong to the LORD your God. Deu 10:14

Hear, O my people, and I will speak; O Israel, I will testify against you. I am God, your God (v.7) “If I were hungry, I would not tell you, for the world and its fullness are mine. Ps 50:7, 12

Who is like you, Lord God Almighty? You, Lord, are mighty, and your faithfulness surrounds you. 9You rule over the surging sea; when its waves mount up, you still them. 10You crushed Rahab like one of the slain; with your strong arm you scattered your enemies. 11The heavens are yours, and yours also the earth; you founded the world and all that is in it. Ps 89: 8-11

This is God's world. God owns the world and everything it. However, God has made men and women stewards (managers) of the earth and in the earth.

[HR][/HR]To discover what the Bible says about stewardship, we start with the very first verse: “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). As the Creator, God has absolute rights of ownership over all things, and to miss starting here is like misaligning the top button on our shirt or blouse—nothing else will ever line up. Nothing else in the Bible, including the doctrine of stewardship, will make any sense or have any true relevance if we miss the fact that God is the Creator and has full rights of ownership. It is through our ability to fully grasp this and imbed it in our hearts that the doctrine of stewardship is understood.

Stewardship defines our practical obedience in the administration of everything under our control, everything entrusted to us. It is the consecration of one’s self and possessions to God's service. Stewardship acknowledges in practice that we do not have the right of control over ourselves or our property—God has that control. It means as stewards of God we are managers of that which belongs to God, and we are under His constant authority as we administer HIS affairs. Faithful stewardship means that we fully acknowledge we are not our own but belong to Christ, the Lord, who gave Himself for us.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Listen carefully. Feminism is about gaining power over governments, institutions, societies, and people for the explicit benefit of females. Period.

The present feminist legal contracts being served up by leftist Western governments are voluntary male slave agreements that resemble the ancient slave agreements that existed in antiquity in which a person would voluntarily enslave themselves to an owner. But at least in ancient Israel, a person who had legally enslaved themselves to another would have the opportunity to gain their freedom during the Jubilee.

I'm not "going back to Egypt" as the saying goes. God wants me to be a free man and not a legally contracted and government controlled slave of another person.

The statistics are clear. In leftist Western Civilization, marriage is now in steep decline and non-immigrant birthrates are declining. Wait until male birth control comes to market. Then you'll see the birth rate fall as rapidly as marriage has.

Feminism is about government and societal power over non-females for the benefit of females. Equality is nothing more than a marketing slogan that doesn't align with the reality. Men know it and are increasingly going their own way in droves rather than enter into what amounts to a human slave contract.

Argue all you like, but it's in a steep nose dive now and will eventually crash. It's just a matter of time. Men are increasingly refusing to sign agreements slaving themselves out. Interestingly, the ability of government to continue borrowing and handing out the money to single mothers in the form of welfare and social services will be severely curtailed at about the same time. A severe economic crisis is also taking form down the line. A spectacular socio-political firework show will eventually result complete with riots and possibly revolutionary groups like existed in the 60's. Very exciting stuff. Enjoy it since you helped create it.


If you think that's what feminism is then that's sad. Feminism is all about equality.
 
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