I've already had people pray over me about it. 3 on Thursday, and another 8-9 at the Bible Study I goto. So far nothing yet.
I am not a spiritual authority by any means. So please feel free to ignore what I say. But to me Biblically the Holy Spirit should be as easy to receive as salvation, going by the Acts of the Apostles.
For years as a teenager I yearned for the gift. We went to Christian camps and went out to be prayed with. I braced myself continually for this great surge of power that we had been taught would come upon us at our pentecostal church, alas nothing ever happened. I believed I wasn't good enough to receive it.(that is totally unbiblical by the way, but I didn't know that then)
I went away from God for a while, but when I was nineteen returned to him. I read a book about a methodist minister and his friend who went to a retreat for the weekend to learn more of God, neither of them had been baptised in the Holy Spirit. While they were there a woman asked them if she could pray for them to receive the Baptism, they agreed.
They knelt on the floor and she prayed for them to receive it, nothing happened. The minister was getting sceptical about the whole thing. She stopped praying for them, and asked them if they felt any differant, they both shook their heads.
Then she asked them if any strange words that didn't make sense had come into their minds. The minster thought for a minute and realised there were some jumbled non-sensical words in his head. But he thought he was just imagining things, that he had made them up himself. The woman persisted and he admitted that words that made no sense were in his mind.
She asked him if he would be a fool for Christ and say them out loud. He thought for a minute, it sounded daft, but he didn't mind being a fool for Jesus. And so they said these words that sounded jibberish out loud.
Nothing happened for a few minutes, he felt no differant at all, then all of a sudden the words flowed and he felt such peace, and the tears flowed down his cheeks. His friend had the same experiance at the same time.
He felt the woman tap on his shoulder, they needed to leave for some other engagement, two hours had flown by while they spoke in tongues.
And so I knelt by my bed and asked God to baptise me in the Holy Spirit, and I said out loud any jumbled up words that came into my head, I persevered and in the end I too received the baptism and spoke in tongues.
Why is it not always dramatic when we receive the Baptism? Well I believe God wanted to teach me faith, and therefore not to go by feelings and emotion.
Now I am not saying God can be put in a corner, but I know Biblically that faith has to get a response. And Paul was clear. The Galation church did not receive the Spirit by obeying the law, but by believing what they heard. Gal3:3
I hope that may help. A loving God wants us to exercise faith, and someone once said. 'Faith begins where logic ends.'
God Bless