who did Cain get married to?

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Ariel82

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Even crazy men with many wives don't want an STD so a quarantine period is logical...doesn't really matter but a year makes it easy to see if your cattle and women don't drop any babies...then something is wrong.
 

lastofall

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The bible also records that we must study God's Word as with conviction in order to rightly divide the Word of Truth: in this the bible also tells us to avoid foolish and unlearned questions, knowing that they only bring about controversy. As for there being other people, it is evident in the text of scripture, we must only study earnestly.
 

Jimbone

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Never? Than what is the other choice? Marry an animal?

The "wild leap" is saying, "considering that God has never been too keen on incest."
Or pretending that you can project your own morality onto God. He made the whole thing man, the creation is not above the Creator. Just wow. :eek:
 
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WillieT, about how long the king had Sarai

Not that anyone asked me...but I would say the king waited at least a year based on these scriptures

Esther 2:12 ►
New International Version
Before a young woman's turn came to go in to King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics.
Good Christmas -- I would be a single woman back in those days. I like to see if I can take a basic shower in 15 minutes or less, including shaving. A year to prepare? Not. Ever! lol
 
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Even crazy men with many wives don't want an STD so a quarantine period is logical...doesn't really matter but a year makes it easy to see if your cattle and women don't drop any babies...then something is wrong.
Well, realistically keeping a woman chase for a whole year doesn't really tell if she's disease loaded. (They did check out for virginity back then. Ew! Ew! Ew! Who gets that job?) And considering the idea is a year of virginity, wouldn't he rather NOT know if she were fertile by the time the year is up? No-sex isn't going to tell me the likelihood of fertility. Only the likelihood of dropping a baby. And if she drops the baby, poof! She gets out of 3-9 months of prettying up! (Likely killed too, but that's a different problem.)
 
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The bible also records that we must study God's Word as with conviction in order to rightly divide the Word of Truth: in this the bible also tells us to avoid foolish and unlearned questions, knowing that they only bring about controversy. As for there being other people, it is evident in the text of scripture, we must only study earnestly.
I see no harm in trying to figure out who Cain married. It doesn't say, so apparently not that important to the book about God. But we are curious creatures.

My curiosity in trying to figure out how it all worked out has landed me some interesting bits about God. Who did keep track of the genealogy in Genesis for instance? To my way of thinking the obvious choice is God.

However, Alex Haley once sat listening to the historian in an African tribe for six hours as she ran down the lists of forefathers. Then she said, "Kunta Kinke." Kunta Kinke! Alex Haley just heard the name of his great-great-great grandfather in two words of another language. It is possible for the family between Adam and Eve all the way to Moses really were capable of remembering that many forefathers from years of training. And it is possible Noah memorized the list before the Big Float. (He had 100 years of boat building to memorize the list in. It's doable! lol)

How does it hurt to think in these terms?

And, if you are so against arguing, then didn't you just start one by arguing against arguing? lol
 
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I see no harm in trying to figure out who Cain married. It doesn't say, so apparently not that important to the book about God. But we are curious creatures.

My curiosity in trying to figure out how it all worked out has landed me some interesting bits about God. Who did keep track of the genealogy in Genesis for instance? To my way of thinking the obvious choice is God.

However, Alex Haley once sat listening to the historian in an African tribe for six hours as she ran down the lists of forefathers. Then she said, "Kunta Kinke." Kunta Kinke! Alex Haley just heard the name of his great-great-great grandfather in two words of another language. It is possible for the family between Adam and Eve all the way to Moses really were capable of remembering that many forefathers from years of training. And it is possible Noah memorized the list before the Big Float. (He had 100 years of boat building to memorize the list in. It's doable! lol)

How does it hurt to think in these terms?

And, if you are so against arguing, then didn't you just start one by arguing against arguing? lol
I find it fascinating that much of the time Genesis is speaking of adam, and not Adam. That throws a whole 'nother strata in there. LOL
 

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The Bible recorded that after Cain killed his brother, and the Lord cursed him and put a mark on him so no one would kill him, that he departed and later got married. Now my question is, if Cain and Abel were the first children and Adam and Eve were God's first creation, where did Cain get the woman he got married to? Shalom!
Adam and Eve were the first Human souls. They were designed to be redeemed by the blood of Jesus. They were in a covenant relationship with God.

There were other people, like other tribes, but they were not human souls. Evidence of their existence has been found.

Almost human souls, primitives, outside the covenant.

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Magenta

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Adam and Eve were the first Human souls. They were designed to be redeemed by the blood of Jesus. They were in a covenant relationship with God.

There were other people, like other tribes, but they were not human souls. Evidence of their existence has been found.

Almost human souls, primitives, outside the covenant.
Man became a living soul when God breathed the breath of life into the physical elements that comprised man. Even animals have this breath of life.
 

Zmouth

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How was the situation regarding procreation unforeseen? Please do explain :)
The Word is from everlasting to everlasting, it doesn't change.

For example:
For ever, O LORD, thy word is settled in heaven. Ps 119:89
For I am the LORD, I change not; Mal 3:6
Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. Hebrews 13:8

Therefore to say that Cain's wife was his sister implies, contrary to scripture, that the LORD's word is temporal since the LORD's word teaches those of faith against engaging in physical relations between biological members of their own family.

The nakedness of thy sister, the daughter of thy father, or daughter of thy mother, whether she be born at home, or born abroad, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover. Lev 18:9

Since the LORD gave his Word not to condemn man, but rather to instruct man, then the physiological and psychological effects of incestous relations a is somewhat subjective yet genetically the common traits from a single set of procreators having the same genes for hair color, eye color, skin color would have resulted in a successive genes being the same, as you see below.



Thus, the flaw with the Cain's wife being his biological sister, since we know that when men (males and females) began to multiply upon the face of the earth and daughters were born unto them, that the sons of God (males)

John 1:13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. (Like Adam was)

saw the daughters of men (males and females) that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose....





 

Zmouth

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Man became a living soul when God breathed the breath of life into the physical elements that comprised man. Even animals have this breath of life.
Kinda hard to be a living being without breathing
 
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1Tim 1: 3As I urged you upon my departure for Macedonia, remain on at Ephesus so that you may instruct certain men not to teach strange doctrines, 4nor to pay attention to myths and endless genealogies, which give rise to mere speculation rather than furthering the administration of God which is by faith. 5But the goal of our instruction is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. 6For some men, straying from these things, have turned aside to fruitless discussion, 7wanting to be teachers of the Law, even though they do not understand either what they are saying or the matters about which they make confident assertions.

Selah.

 

Kavik

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Not to open a can of worms, but….this is a great example of why Genesis cannot be taken literally word for word – it is a collection of creation stories of a specific group of Semitic people. Some of the stories are very similar to other Semitic peoples (the flood for example).

Every culture has its creation stories. We typically regard the creation stories of other cultures as “creation myths” – really no different here; if we all practiced say Druidism or the religion of ancient Greece, we’d look at Genesis and classify it as “Hebrew mythology” the same way we do with Greek, Roman, or Norse mythology.

The stories of Genesis are all very metaphorical. Adam and Eve (and their children) are metaphors for mankind in general – plenty of other marriage prospects for Cain.

When looking at genealogical "lists" and such in the Bible, just as the term "father" can mean "ancestor" (not one's actual father), the term "son(s) (and daughters)" can also mean "descendants" in general, not one's direct offspring.
 

mcubed

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The Bible recorded that after Cain killed his brother, and the Lord cursed him and put a mark on him so no one would kill him, that he departed and later got married. Now my question is, if Cain and Abel were the first children and Adam and Eve were God's first creation, where did Cain get the woman he got married to? Shalom!

The Scripture record Cane and Able, where did you get they are the only children Adam and Eve had?
 

Bladerunner

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The Bible recorded that after Cain killed his brother, and the Lord cursed him and put a mark on him so no one would kill him, that he departed and later got married. Now my question is, if Cain and Abel were the first children and Adam and Eve were God's first creation, where did Cain get the woman he got married to? Shalom!

I think you answered your own question??
?//You said he (Cain).."that he departed and later got married."


You did not take into account the number of years they lived. Had plenty of time.
 

Bladerunner

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Gen 3:20 And Adam called his wife's name Eve; because she was the mother of all living.

It would of had to be Cain's relative,which could be his sister or not,which most likely it would not be his sister,for even though the law was not given yet,they must of had some moral rule of that not to marry the child of your direct mother,and father,and they lived to a great number of years back then,hundreds of years,so Cain could of easily married his brother,or sister's daughter,which would not be a direct child of his mother,and father.

But I do not know if it was his sister from his mother,and father,or a daughter from one of his brother,or sister's child,but it had to be a relative.

rem one thing..... Before Chapter 6 of Genesis took place, the Blood line was PURE on all sides of the isle. This was the reason why inbreeding (harsh word) was allowed to take place and populate the earth.

As I stated before, Cain live a good long time..Long enough to find a woman to marry..... Notice I did not rule out relatives.

One other point..... All point,,,All of Cain's children's names had God (EL) in them... So i suspect that God told Cain how to remove Sin by animal sacrifice (long before Leviticus Laws). I also suspect that we will find him (Cain) there in Heaven when we get there.
 

Bladerunner

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It is interesting that most of us try to ignore that part about Cain DEPARTING. Were all these other brothers and sisters of his already living out there in the wilderness somewhere? How and why did they get sent there... since Cain was banished from the area of his parent's homeland strictly as punishment?
It is apparent you have a beef with the way the earth was populated. The Bible does not tell how old Adam and Eve was when they had Cain or Abel. It does tell us that Seth was born to them (Adam and EVE) one Hundred and thirty Years of Age.

There probably was many children born to Adam and Eve before then. Abel and Cain was two of them.

As I stated earlier, the blood lines were PURE thus "inbreeding" permitted.

God sent Cain to NOD, east of Eden..... WHY because of the sin he committed.
 
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BigWill

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Have we considered there are two creation accounts in Genesis. One in chapter 1 and another in Chapter 2. The account in Chapter 2 of Genesis being the account of Adam and Eve, where God creates a man to tend His garden. Thus leaving the account in Chapter 1 to account for male and female to be created and replenish the earth?
 
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Bladerunner

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Have we considered there are two creation accounts in Genesis. One in chapter 1 and another in Chapter 2. The account in Chapter 2 of Genesis being the account of Adam and Eve, where God creates a man to tend His garden. Thus leaving the account in Chapter 1 to account for male and female to be created and replenish the earth?
There is only 1 creation account. Chapter 2 is a summary of what happened in Chapter 1.

 

Magenta

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Therefore to say that Cain's wife was his sister
Considering I never said any such thing, I shall ignore what you say here as being irrelevant. However, it seems you want to say that God instituting different parts of His plan at different times is to say He changed. You could not be more wrong. Carry on...