Why is it that these posts telling us to behave are from someone who has been a member for 3 days? Like the OP.
And basically hit and runs?
I have to think it is a banned member, coming back as a troll, to cause dissent.
I do think the discussions have been helpful in my growth as a Christian. I am much more loving and caring, and I have learned how to walk away from a fight, generally by putting the person on ignore.
I have also learned how to apologize publicly and privately for when I do lose it. Being taken down a few notches is always a good thing!