Lies, Infidelity and Forgivness

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MarcR

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I saw him at a friends house. We greeted. I kept it civil. He appears fine. Why does that bother me

It bothers you because you were badly hurt; and you need time to heal and move past your pain.

You did exactly as you should have done.
 
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Quest20

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Thank you all for being here. You have no idea how much you help
 
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Wow...is this desperation or what? Seriously, you should consider being a writer for movie scripts. You would win, hands down, for drama. Does this world need to know this? Is this your way of venting? Let's get serious for one moment...Take this anquish and expressions here and get alone with your Creator and tell it to HIM...your Father. Give Him all your burdens, concerns, as JESUS said.."Cast all your burdens on ME!" What I see here is that you are using the internet to ease your burdens..it isn't working. Nobody needs to know your inward thoughts, except GOD..because only HE can do something about it. When you open up your soul to the world...what do you expect? What you will get is not exactly what you really need....only a relationship with JESUS can you begin to overcome this. Your fellow brothers and sisters can indeed pray for you...but..as I re-read your post..I see no mention of you seeking or asking for spiritual help, guidance or prayer. I see you wallowing in grief...and only JESUS CHRIST, the Holy SPIRIT and GOD Himself can get you through, not this chatroom. There..I was as blunt as you were. Seriously...putting a man into a trash bag and putting it into a shredder? If I didn't laugh, I would sob...
 
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Quest20

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Satan has arrived
 
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Quest20

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I thought I had a solid relstionship with Jesus when this happened. As i Put in the firsr post, i dont know how to pray anymore.
 

MarcR

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Quest,

Most of us here believe that you were treated very badly; and sympathize with your situation.

wallowing in your pain and asking for more support will NOT help you get past this.


How to pray:

First trust and believe that the Lord does not bring adversity into our lives except for our benefit.

Pray that if the lord is using this to teach you something that he will help you understand and apply the lesson.

Pray that if God has another reason for this, that He will show it to you.

Ask the lord to help you recover from this; and to show you what He has next for you.
 
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Quest20

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Awesome thanks!
 
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Quest20

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Quest,

Most of us here believe that you were treated very badly; and sympathize with your situation.

wallowing in your pain and asking for more support will NOT help you get past this.


How to pray:

First trust and believe that the Lord does not bring adversity into our lives except for our benefit.

Pray that if the lord is using this to teach you something that he will help you understand and apply the lesson.

Pray that if God has another reason for this, that He will show it to you.

Ask the lord to help you recover from this; and to show you what He has next for you.
I have started this. I will continue and use patience
 

Jesus4ever

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It bothers you because you were badly hurt; and you need time to heal and move past your pain.

You did exactly as you should have done.

This, dear sister!


May God give you the comfort and peace you need!
 
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Quest20

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Wow...is this desperation or what? Seriously, you should consider being a writer for movie scripts. You would win, hands down, for drama. Does this world need to know this? Is this your way of venting? Let's get serious for one moment...Take this anquish and expressions here and get alone with your Creator and tell it to HIM...your Father. Give Him all your burdens, concerns, as JESUS said.."Cast all your burdens on ME!" What I see here is that you are using the internet to ease your burdens..it isn't working. Nobody needs to know your inward thoughts, except GOD..because only HE can do something about it. When you open up your soul to the world...what do you expect? What you will get is not exactly what you really need....only a relationship with JESUS can you begin to overcome this. Your fellow brothers and sisters can indeed pray for you...but..as I re-read your post..I see no mention of you seeking or asking for spiritual help, guidance or prayer. I see you wallowing in grief...and only JESUS CHRIST, the Holy SPIRIT and GOD Himself can get you through, not this chatroom. There..I was as blunt as you were. Seriously...putting a man into a trash bag and putting it into a shredder? If I didn't laugh, I would sob...
I thought on this and tried to decide how to reply and if i wanted to.

You were trying to amuse but I have written and published a book that i receive royalties on.

Yes, I use the internet to help me. There is plenty of knowledge in it. These arent bots on these forums, but real people. I have been part of a christian family for 2 years and felt like a christian board is where i need to be. Who are you to say it isnt working? I went from staying in bed all the time and crying, to being barely at home living and laughing.

I pray about this, i met with a pastor and i used the help. It is common sense that peoplr here have prayed. I asked for direction.

Just praying and not speaking to others is what has thr suicide rate so high. God uses people to help others, thats why we have hospitals, shelters, therapists, teachers etc.

Lastly, there isn't any humor in,this